Who have you told that you are TTCing?

My husband told his sister in law (his brothers wife) but we dont want to tell anyone and I am dyeing to tell either my sister, my best friend or both.

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

When we first started we didn't tell anyone, now that we have problems we have only told our moms and 2 best friends and the wonderful ladies on here

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

My immediate family knows. They knew from the beginning because I am very close with them and tell them everything anyway. My closest friends know.

And of course, the wonderful women here!

Message edited 8/24/2005 2:08:18 PM.

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

I think because of our age everyone knows... I'm almost 35 and DH is 37. All of our friends and family have had kids for years.

DH's family asked what our plans were when we were engaged. I don't blame them because DH was married before and three years into the marriage his 37 year old ex-wife suddenly decided she's not sure if they should TTC because she's wasn't sure if she wanted to ever have children. DH was crushed as this was a complete 180. Trust me there were other "issues" as well.

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Uhhhh....everyone knows. My family, his family...friends, coworkers, clients...I was on bed rest for 2 weeks so I had to explain it. Then I missed so I had a D&C and had to explain that....beside I am 39 ( ) so everyone knew we were planning to ttc anyway.

Even people who didn't know I was pg knew after I missed. I am an open book, incapable of keeping a secret of any kind....especially if I think it is something GOOD.

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A couple work people know. Because I stupidly told them when they asked.

My sister knows and my parents know (accidentally - my mom overheard my massage therapist asking me questions about it.)

And all DH's camping buddies know, because he drove down from Lake George every other night when he was camping so we could BD.

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Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

Posted by karacg

Posted by leighla

And all DH's camping buddies know, because he drove down from Lake George every other night when he was camping so we could BD.

OMG that is so funny!!!!!!!!!!!! Did he rush into your bed with the Deet on his skin, smelling like a bear, with a fishing rod in his hand and hiking boots still on???? OMG I am cracking up on that one Lauren!! You kill me!!

But hey let's hope his efforts worked!!

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Where's the icon of holding the nose??

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3 of my close girlfriends
1 aunt (the only one who can keep a secret)
1 cousin (who can also keep a secret)
1 friend (former teacher) She's a nun, so she's praying to all the saints!!!!

We didn't tell our mothers cause we didn't want to answer "are you PG?" every month, only to tell them "NO!!!"

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

My parents and sisters.
A few of my close friends
My Superviser, because of all the days I would come in late.

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Noone knows except for you guys. I don't plan on telling anyone until 3 months after I get the BFP( ). With DH being the first to know, you all are second to know. But if DH isnt home when i find out, you guys will know first cause Id have to get it out or else I'll be knocking on every door on Marcies street till i find her house so I could tell her since we live around the block from eachother

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Posted by karacg

Posted by leighla

And all DH's camping buddies know, because he drove down from Lake George every other night when he was camping so we could BD.

OMG that is so funny!!!!!!!!!!!! Did he rush into your bed with the Deet on his skin, smelling like a bear, with a fishing rod in his hand and hiking boots still on???? OMG I am cracking up on that one Lauren!! You kill me!!

But hey let's hope his efforts worked!!

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Posted by mrsmck

3 of my close girlfriends
1 aunt (the only one who can keep a secret)
1 cousin (who can also keep a secret)
1 friend (former teacher) She's a nun, so she's praying to all the saints!!!!

We didn't tell our mothers cause we didn't want to answer "are you PG?" every month, only to tell them "NO!!!"

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

Besides you guys....I've only told my 2 best friends. My DH would kill me if he knew I told anyone. He's sooooo paranoid about being too pressured!

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Family (my sister knows "a lot" about me). She had a baby last year, so, I go to her. Its funny asking my "baby" sister for advice.
Friends and thats it...and you all!

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

Both sides of the family know we have to wait before TTC. Only my brother and sister will know (CJ's and our next child's godparents). One LIW friend and one LIF friend. I just don't want the monthly questions of "Are you PG?" DH and I have already let them know we will be trying, but they don't know I will be POAS, checking CM, temping and such to keep the questions at bay

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

Like a dummy everyone- and of course we get the soooooooo any news yet- I smile and say no but inside Im like - hey dont you think I'd be jumping for joy telling everyone, so since I didnt mention it- No there isnt any new news to tell-

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Posted by girlygrl33

Like a dummy everyone- and of course we get the soooooooo any news yet- I smile and say no but inside Im like - hey dont you think I'd be jumping for joy telling everyone, so since I didnt mention it- No there isnt any new news to tell-

Re: Who have you told that you are TTCing?

As of now, only you wonderful ladies and of course, hubby has a clue..