What would you do?

I hope Im not being selfish or rude by asking this.
Here is my situation,. You all know ive been TTCing for about 2-3 months now. TBAF decided to visit me today.
Ok, my brother is getting married in July and I am the MOH. Im kind of "afraid" that my month to concieve would be Oct. and my due date would be in July!
I dont want to be 9 months pg walking down the aisle, or worry about going into labor.
Would you skip a month of "Bding" and be like 7 or 8 months pg @ the wedding.
I have thought this through. I came up with Maybe if my due date was around the wedding, I could be induced.
I really am hoping Sept. is my month for a nice June baby!
Can I have your opinions please? I know when it happens it happens, and I cant wait for it to happen.
TIA

Message edited 9/13/2005 5:11:49 PM.

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I would have to say you do what is more important to you (not meaning to make this sound bad).

IMO I would go for the baby...BUT you have to decide what you really want...what if you try and it doesn't happen this month?

I say try and see if it happens...if it does (YIPPEE) you will have to make different arrangements for your brother's wedding...

if it doesn't (BOO) then you have nothing to worry about...

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This actually happened to me. Sadly that pg ended in miscarriage but my due date was the exact date of my SIL"s wedding where I am the MOH. I was planning on still attending and praying i didn't burst, plus I live in CT. We were actually planning to skip that month so we wouldn't be due on her date. We seriously BD'd one time that whole cycle, so it really does only take 1 time to get pg. DH was so against trying that month for respect for his sister.

It's really a personal decision between you and your DH. You should take in account the feelings of your brother, and how he will feel about you not being able to participate in the wedding. With that said, it's still your decision. But a baby is blessing, so if it happens it happens. But also remember, when we all were getting married we tend to think the world revolves around us, and that's just not true.

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welp , if this is my month I will be 9 months in my uncles wedding I am BM , so I obviously still tried for the baby cause you just never know when or I hate to say if its going to happen- my stepsister missed her brothers wedding she went into labor a few weeks early the day before the wedding and they had to do quick thinking on how the BP was going to be then. I would say just keep going about your BDing as normal.

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I don't you think you should put your life on hold. Keep trying and if it happens you can always back out being MOH.

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TY ladies for your answers!

Im hoping for a June baby, if it happens after, then (like posted in above threads) we will see what happens!
TY again and I will keep you all posted!

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I think you should do whatever is best for you and adapt in all other situations.

My best friend did not put her life on hold for my wedding and she was 7 months PG as one of my BM. She looked beautiful...and we worked around it.

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Im going to be in the wedding definitley...Just not sure I want to be 9 months pg...8 months, 7, thats fine with me!
Just dont want to go into labor on their day!
Was thinking of not trying for month and get right back into it in November.
We'll see! God has a plan for us all and I hope he will answer my prayers this month.

TY all again! I know I keep repeating myself and I am sorry, but you really are a wonderful group of people!

Baby Dust to you all!!!!!!