those who know my situation..

well you know my parents did not even know i was back with my bf again, let alone pregnant. well we told my 5 year old niece because she loves him and always asks about him after 2 years and she made me a picture saying i love you and have a good time on your date. my garandmother wa over and asked her what date and she wispered in her ear that i am dating my ex again, but don't tell grandpa, well my 3 year old nephew heard and said Grannnddddpa, guess what..so now my parents know, but have not said anything to me...at least that part is out of the way, now I will wait my 12 weeks and tell them the rest. It is just so funny how kids can not keep a secret.

Message edited 10/5/2005 9:51:47 AM.

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I have been following your story and I hope everything works out for you! At least you got one thing you needed to tell them out of the way

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At least that part of the secrets out
Maybe you should bring it up to your parents about the BF yourself. They are probably waiting for you to be the adult and come to them. That would be a huge weight off your shoulders then tell them about the baby in a couple weeks. I think it would be less of a blow to them.

You're gonna be a mommy soon, we all have to do things that we don't want to do, comes with the territory of being a responsible adult.

Being an adult sometimes stinks!!

Good luck!

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Well at least part of it, is out in the open now. You should just come on and tell your parents that you are dating your ex again it will make you feel a little better.

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Message edited 10/5/2005 10:36:56 AM.

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Kids say the darnest things, but they never lie!

Good Luck to you - at least important part of the puzzle is out of the way - now on to the next.

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ooppss

Message edited 10/5/2005 10:36:11 AM.

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I am sure they will mention it today when I see them, it worked out well this way i did not have to tell them myself.

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Posted by sweetness

At least that part of the secrets out
Maybe you should bring it up to your parents about the BF yourself. They are probably waiting for you to be the adult and come to them. That would be a huge weight off your shoulders then tell them about the baby in a couple weeks. I think it would be less of a blow to them.

You're gonna be a mommy soon, we all have to do things that we don't want to do, comes with the territory of being a responsible adult.

Being an adult sometimes stinks!!

Good luck!

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I agree with Sweetness, she said it beautifully. I think you should talk to your parents, at least about being back together. It is the mature thing to do, and allthough they may not like it at first, they will respect it. It is one of the first steps in becoming viewed as an adult.

It will also be easier to tell your parents about the pregnancy- you will have had one confrontation over with, and you can gage how they react. They will see that you are mature enough to make these kinds of decisions and handle the joys and challenges ahead.