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meganNbobby
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it's really hitting me this month...
okay i know i'm getting AF soon but i have MAJOR baby fever right now... so much all i want to so is cry.... i am so mad at myself.....
my friend just had a baby on sunday, and i saw the baby yesterday... all I did was cry.. i just couldnt believe that came from 2 people in love!!! and seeing the new mommy look at her daughter after playing in daipers ourselves some 20 years ago it was just too much for me to handle!!! all i do i think about having a baby and crying!! then today i get home gfrom work and watch TLC and baby story then bringing home the baby cried though the whole hour!!! then was watching an 7th episode and lucy had the baby cried like a baby again!!!
now I am so mad at myself for being fat.... i gained all the weight back after getting married.... and if it wasnt for me just eating we could have a baby now... but I do not want to get pregnant on top of my weight now.... i'm not obese just overweight and I feel crappy now - healthwise - and i would feel horrible about myself if I got even heavier!! When I have a baby I want it to be happy, everything go smoothly i dont want to worry i'm getting too overweight where it can affect my health or the baby's....
i really just have stop eating it seem sooooo easy but its' not for me... try giving up something that you have to do every day... it's hard and i work in the food industry and i'm surrounded by delicious food every day... it's soooo hard.... i just have to STOP!!! i'm soo mad at myself becuase I could TTC now but wont b/c of my weight and it wasnt for my lack of self control we could TTC now,
sorry fro venting again guys just verty emotional right now...   
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CookiePuss
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
I'm sorry you feel so bad. I think all the women on this board have had their breakdown moments...I know I have and still do. I really think you are being really hard on yourself about the weight. You should try not to let it be such a factor in how you feel about yourself. I've gained weight since I got married. Am I happy about it - no - but I try not to beat myself up either.
Have you considered TTC now? It really helps in changing your attitude about what you put in your body because you just never know if this is the month. I know that I eat a lot healthier now and pass up on some of the bad stuff that I would have done in the past.
I hope you feel better and here are some 
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| Posted 10/11/05 7:38 PM |
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mskimmy98
My twins are one!!!
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
I am sending you lots of
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| Posted 10/11/05 7:40 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
awww hunnie...Dont get so down on yourself. I feel very similiar. I know how hard it is. Please vent and know we are here to support you!
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| Posted 10/11/05 7:55 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
Please dont be so hard on yourself about your weight. I, too, am heavy but I feel good. Somedays, not so great. I had an annual last week and told my dr. my whole ttc story and he basically said "Good luck, hope to see you soon".
Of course, exercise..even taking a brisk walk counts.
Im sending you many
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| Posted 10/11/05 7:58 PM |
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redstar
Delay is not denial
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
I have a close friend, who keeps putting ttc off because she feels her weight is a huge factor. She keeps saying "when I lose the weight, I will try". I told her to do the reverse, that perhaps, ttc, will help her lose the weight. Sometimes when you set a larger goal for yourself, like having a baby, the smaller things like weight loss come with it. It's sort of like the 'wedding". When a woman knows she has a wedding, to look forward to, she loses the weight that she might have put on during 'dating' etc.
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| Posted 10/11/05 8:14 PM |
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babyhopes
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
Posted by redstar
I have a close friend, who keeps putting ttc off because she feels her weight is a huge factor. She keeps saying "when I lose the weight, I will try". I told her to do the reverse, that perhaps, ttc, will help her lose the weight. Sometimes when you set a larger goal for yourself, like having a baby, the smaller things like weight loss come with it. It's sort of like the 'wedding". When a woman knows she has a wedding, to look forward to, she loses the weight that she might have put on during 'dating' etc.
So true...
AWWW Honey!!! We all have these moments and feelings.
I gained weight after I got married also...I actually lost it...and gained it ALL back WHILE ttc!
and trust me...I cry a lot because I feel like a failure at times cause I can't get prego. Or because I feel like I don't deserve it cause I left myself "go"...but you can't think like that. It's not fair to think like this.
One thing this board has done for me is help me realze that there are SO many women NOT getting Prego the 1st or second time...it DOES take 6-12 months and MORE!
Besides the AWESOME feedback, info. and support...it helps ground me in a sense.
Don't get me wrong...I happen to be a emotional wreck at times when I am feeling down...but you have to stay strong!
Many to you!!!!
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| Posted 10/12/05 12:22 PM |
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
I'm sorry you feel so sad.
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| Posted 10/12/05 1:10 PM |
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kelswiss
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
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Donna
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
many hugs to you
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| Posted 10/12/05 1:17 PM |
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meganNbobby
Our Family is Complete
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
thanks alot girls... i went to bed real early yesterday and I am better today... still waiting ro AF to show today... it's been an emotional last few days.... i dont usually get this emotiional with my period but wow my hubby was like... umm it will be okay.... i just had to smile... he didnt what to do or say....
gotta love them..
thanks alot girls!!
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| Posted 10/12/05 1:33 PM |
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babyhopes
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
Glad to hear your feeling better! 
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| Posted 10/12/05 1:40 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
So glad to hear you are doing better!
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| Posted 10/12/05 4:29 PM |
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kat813
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Re: it's really hitting me this month...
Glad you are feeling better. We all have our moments and I think that AF makes them all the more difficult to deal with:)
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| Posted 10/12/05 9:41 PM |
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CaseyGirl
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