I want another one

And DH says not now!
We have a 5 year old daughter, and we just got married in june so i was hoping to get pregnant in Sept or Oct. We both decided to hold off. I went back to school.
As i look into the near future (next 5 years) I dont see a "perfect time" to have another one. But i dont want my kids to be so far apart, and i am ready for another.
So now im trying to hold off until this time next year, and im hoping to buy a house in the spring. But im obsessed in the meantime.
Sorry- im just kinda bummed out.
When did everyone decide it was the perfect time to conceive? Does everyone own a house? Finished with college? have other kids?
Thanks for the input.

Re: I want another one

That biological clock is tick tickin away huh? I own my own home and have three beautiful children. Although I to want one more. See I am divorced but have met my soul-mate we are engaged and been together for three years. He has never had a child and I would love for us to share that wonderful experience together. It has not happened yet and don't know if it will but I would say to you when the decision is made together and both being on the same page makes it all worhtwhile. Keep your head held high you never know he may change his mind!!!

Re: I want another one

I personally am not were I would like to be before having a baby...but I don't think I really NEED to be.

I do not own my own house...and I will probably have a baby on the way when I do...but is there ever really a prefect time?

Re: I want another one

I own my own little house that needs a lot of work and slowly its getting done, we have bills that we want to pay off and we decided to just start. There will always be bills, always work to be done on the house and always problems with his daughter (11 1/2yo) and ex-wife, but we refuse to let that stop us. We want to start our family and we are trying.

Re: I want another one

I want a large family and Im 30 now, and The clocks ticking. I had past PG probelms ending in losses, and now suffering from infertility. We decided to start trying Right before the wedding to not waste any time, and now that Im having trouble getting PG, Im glad we started now. We have had time to save up money we thought we wouldnt have ...so sometimes the "not ready" excuses may not apply. Things like that.

You really need to talk to her husband, you have to be on the same page. Explain to him how your feeling and why, maybe he will start to see your point/side of it?

GOOD LUCK!