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princess99
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Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
I am doing well, as well as can be 14 yrs later, went to counseling when it happened. But now that I have a niece and 2 other nieces born this week. I am having a hard time dealing with the loss of my Mom as well as my dad 6 yrs ago. When SIL was having babies ( twins) this week- they kept saying they cannot wait for there Mom to get there on her flight from out of state. I know I cannot have my Mom back, and I hold so many memories of her and my dad for that matter, but it hurts so much to hear people say they wish there Mom would get there to be there for the birth of there baby. And when my niece was born to my own sister it was hard , and I cried alot , and just admitted this to my sister. Who I was able to to share this with. My sister, who said she will be there thru thick and thin with me. We are very close. I just miss my mom and dad so much. I keep thinking when I have a baby she wil not be there to guide me when a lot of my friends have there moms to guide them, The poor woman did not eeven see me graduate college, get married my niece being born and I feel so jipped. I have alot of support, my sister, and an aunt, but it hurts a lot when these milestones come up. Dh si great, he can understand what i am going thru becuase he lost his Mom 2 yrs ago, but cannot really and truly understand what I am feeling becuase he will not be the one giving birth..... we are TTc right now. Just needed to vent. Thanks for listening.
Message edited 11/9/2007 11:04:29 AM.
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
Life is so unfair!
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| Posted 11/9/07 6:11 PM |
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twobabies
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
you have fm.
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| Posted 11/9/07 7:07 PM |
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Phyl
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
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| Posted 11/10/07 1:35 AM |
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anjerandunder
Positive thoughts worked!!!
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J
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
although you can't see her she's there with you. i at least try to believe that for myself. we are jipped and it shouldn't have to be that way.
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| Posted 11/10/07 7:36 PM |
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july0105
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
I sent you fm 
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| Posted 11/17/07 8:04 AM |
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Chrisnamy
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Amy
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
I feel your pain!
I lost both of my parents before I got married. I feel I got cheated also.
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| Posted 11/17/07 8:37 AM |
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4monkeys
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
sending you lots of hugs
maybe writing them a letter would help you get your feelings out.
writing is therapeutic and helps you express yourself.
I hope you have a wonderful thanksgiving 
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| Posted 11/21/07 10:22 AM |
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TeddyBear922
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Chris
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
Posted by JodiBabe
Life is so unfair!
Yes....it is
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| Posted 11/29/07 9:19 AM |
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Blazesyth
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
I think that part of my lack of wanting a child is dealing with the fact that my mother won't be around for it... My mother will have been gone for 12 years now. She missed my college graduation, my wedding, etc.
If you'd like to talk, FM me.
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| Posted 12/1/07 9:56 PM |
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bikramaddict
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
doesn't life s u c k sometimes? I am in the same boat as you - mom didn't see me graduate college, get married (though she did know my DH well so I'm comforted by that a little), won't see me have a baby, etc.
I cry a lot when I think of those things. It's okay to let it out. Life isn't fair.
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luckystars3
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
I am so sorry you have to go though this pain.
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| Posted 12/19/07 2:40 PM |
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ckone
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Re: Hard time dealing wiht the loss of my Mom 14 yrs later... life events related....Motherless daughter in needof someone to listen....
I'm sorry - I understand...... Many hugs through this hard time.
Message edited 12/23/2007 8:51:16 PM.
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| Posted 12/23/07 8:50 PM |
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