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Need some ideas for my review!

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Beth
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Need some ideas for my review!


thanks!

Message edited 7/16/2008 10:36:37 AM.

Posted 7/15/08 11:12 AM
 
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Susan

Re: Need some ideas for my review!

Now Beth, you know I love ya sista, but you need to come off to your VP as responsible without an attitude.

While I think you should get promoted and be given a giant salary yesterday, that may not happen.

Prepare as you are doing. Do not point out your partner's shortfalls because that is just catty. That doesn't prove you are wonderful. Your work should stand for itself but I wouldn't assume that you will get promoted that day. In fact, I doubt it. I don't know your industry, but it never happens like that in mine.

This doesn't mean you shouldn't get promoted, it just means it may take some time for management to agree to it.

Good luck and I hope you get what you want and deserve!

Posted 7/15/08 3:29 PM
 

Beth
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Beth

Re: Need some ideas for my review!

thanks!

Message edited 7/16/2008 10:36:54 AM.

Posted 7/15/08 3:37 PM
 

robynfs
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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

What about your projected victories...the things you plan to accomplish in the next 6-9 months?

Posted 7/15/08 5:10 PM
 

aliasPook
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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

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When you get promoted, can I have your old position?

Please? Lol

I am the same way. I have everything dpcumented. Some people only see in black and white, I think the report will be very helpful.

Posted 7/15/08 8:32 PM
 

Beth
The Key to your new home....

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Beth

Re: Need some ideas for my review!

Posted by robynfs

What about your projected victories...the things you plan to accomplish in the next 6-9 months?



oh good one- I should add what I plan to do for the spring shows

thanks

Posted 7/15/08 9:23 PM
 

Beth
The Key to your new home....

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Beth

Re: Need some ideas for my review! update

well- I had my review- it lasted all of 5 minutes

not one nice thing to say to me

I am not stepping up enough

but I didn't lose any of my 20 projects/accounts

if I am doing such a so-so job- then why is the senior marketing manager writing a company news letter- and not taking over some of my projects???????

I should have realized that no matter what I do- they just don't promote people here

I am done wasting my time- I turned down 2 other offers b/c of this "promotion" that is never going to happen

Posted 7/17/08 10:18 AM
 

HoneyBadger
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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

Ugh... sorry to hear your review didn't go as planned.

That really stinks.

Did they even give you a chance to explain yourself or for you to show them what you've been working on?

Posted 7/17/08 12:02 PM
 

robynfs
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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

Sorry to hear the news. Did you ask specifically what they are looking for from you in order to get to that next level...or promotion. This way you can keep track of your accomplishments and their expectations and then go to your next review with evidence of your "stepping up" whatever that means.

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Posted 7/17/08 1:40 PM
 

Beth
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Beth

Re: Need some ideas for my review!

nope- he really didn't give me any feedback as to what I could be doing better

besides showing more leadership

I have a feeling it doesn't matter what I do- he doesn't like to promote people

I am going to talk to the president when he returns from vacation in another week

but my mind is kind of made up already

he is looking for reasons NOT to promote me- not for reasons to promote me

it just doesn't make sense-

He even tried to say that I am just startig to pull together things for the Oct show- then my eyes popped out of my head- since I have been working on that since Feb- and he took it back

I am about to start working on the April Show (which before I started working here- they would start AFTER the October Show - and always be behind- I am the one that pointed that out and put together a new product development calendar)

Posted 7/17/08 1:48 PM
 

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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

that blows Beth. I'm sorry. Not only were you not given the accolades, you were told nothing. Bad review on their part. They blew it.

Posted 7/17/08 3:16 PM
 

Beth
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Beth

Re: Need some ideas for my review!

I just have to laugh now

he wants me to sell printer ink for a printer we no longer have on ebay

how do you ask someone to do this- after a day like this?????

Posted 7/17/08 4:59 PM
 

Donna
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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

Posted by Beth1210

I just have to laugh now

he wants me to sell printer ink for a printer we no longer have on ebay

how do you ask someone to do this- after a day like this?????




they do it because they're the boss Chat Icon

Posted 7/18/08 9:28 AM
 

Beth
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Beth

Re: Need some ideas for my review!

well I finally spoke to Jake about this last night

He was so MAD

he wanted to come take me out to lunch today but I told him not to worry about it

he said give him 2 months- and I can do what ever I want

I love him- he is the best!

Posted 7/18/08 10:00 AM
 

mommy2bella
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Kelly

Re: Need some ideas for my review!

good for you Beth.

you have a good head on your shoulders...I have no doubt that you will be fine and find a job that you love Chat Icon

Posted 7/18/08 10:58 AM
 

HoneyBadger
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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

Posted by Beth1210

I just have to laugh now

he wants me to sell printer ink for a printer we no longer have on ebay

how do you ask someone to do this- after a day like this?????




Chat Icon That's balls.

Posted 7/21/08 3:13 PM
 

Erica
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Re: Need some ideas for my review!

I'm sorry that the review didn't go the way you wanted. It sounds like HE is not a good manager if he is not trying to help by giving constructive critism.

I would schedule another meeting and ask him if he could help you come up goals he would like you to reach.

It will show initiative, you'll see if he's being a real douchebag if he has unobtainable goals and when you meet them (and exceed them) he will have no choice but to acknowledge it in some way.

Posted 7/25/08 10:51 AM
 
 

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