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MrsJoeG
Beyond Blessed <3
Member since 2/08 1482 total posts
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Amanda
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waiting to miscarry
We found out yesterday that the baby is not growing. I am 7 1/2 weeks. I have not taken PIO or estrogen since Friday- this is an IVF pg. I am waiting to miscarry "naturally". The cramping has gotten pretty bad but I find myself checking the tp everytime I go. When can I expect miscarriage to actually start? It is so painful to keep waiting and worrying about what is going on in my body. Even though I am heartbroken about losing my baby I would also like to start the healing process. Any similar experiences?
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Posted 1/11/09 9:33 AM  |
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Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink
Member since 12/05 13341 total posts
Name:
J
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Re: waiting to miscarry
First off, I am soooo terribly sorry.
For me, I had brown spotting almost 2 wks before I miscarried naturally - at the time I thought it was normal b/c I hadn't had a sono yet. Once I found out the pg was not viable it was a Wednesday - I was almost 9 wks but the baby stopped growing around 6w3d. By that Sunday I started bleeding red - nothing too bad. That night I had cramping - I would describe as bad twinges - uncomfortable, but I wasn't doubled over in pain. Advil helped.
Monday I had bleeding and by Tuesday morning I miscarried.
It was only b/c they couldn't schedule the D&C sooner that I waited and in that time miscarried naturally. I am now thankful that it happened that way in that time.
I'm so sorry, I know the waiting is horrible.
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| Posted 1/11/09 9:41 AM |
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ktcmblondie
LIF Infant
Member since 9/08 201 total posts
Name:
Kristy
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Re: waiting to miscarry
Just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 1/11/09 10:32 AM |
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MrsMessina
Thankful for our miracles!
Member since 2/07 7254 total posts
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Re: waiting to miscarry
I don't have any insight/advice, but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss. 
 for you.
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| Posted 1/12/09 7:31 AM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
Member since 10/07 9151 total posts
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Re: waiting to miscarry
Oh Amanda I am so very sorry for your loss 
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| Posted 1/12/09 8:32 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name:
Deanna
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Re: waiting to miscarry
i am so terribly sorry for your loss i wish i had words to say to make it easier.. but i know just how hard it is.. keep positive.. it will happen
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| Posted 1/12/09 11:06 AM |
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shaye3
LIF Adolescent
Member since 2/07 696 total posts
Name:
Laura
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Re: waiting to miscarry
I am so very sorry for your losss. I know that feeling of just wanted to be on the healing side of it..it is cruel to have to be in limbo..when i miscarried natuarlly it took about a week after stopping meds...one of my friend went to her accupucturist and that helped bring it on...sending you many hugs
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| Posted 1/12/09 3:33 PM |
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Nik09
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 1982 total posts
Name:
Nikole
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Re: waiting to miscarry
It took 2 weeks once I found out that the pregnancy wasn't going to be viable for my body to miscarry naturally. Once I started cramping I bled for about 2 additional weeks. The waiting is torture. My thoughts are with you. I'm so sorry
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| Posted 1/12/09 7:03 PM |
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MrsBurtch525
Year for change!
Member since 1/09 6017 total posts
Name:
Taryn
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Re: waiting to miscarry
Im so sorry!!!
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| Posted 1/12/09 8:15 PM |
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tj2008
LIF Adult
Member since 3/08 1000 total posts
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Re: waiting to miscarry
I'm in the same boat as you,i miscarried naturally yesterday. im so sorry...
feel free to fm me if you need to talk
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| Posted 1/13/09 10:08 AM |
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