Well, I'll be darned...

Last cycle I had a chemical betw 4-5 weeks but my OB said if I REALLY wanted to try right away, she was OK with it. Well, I got a BFP on Sat at 9DPO I'm being so superstitious that I'm posting under the same name I used as an alias when I was in my 1st tri with DS (btw I did post under my regular name last month with the chemical so it's not hard to figure out...). I am waiting to tell people until 12 weeks so I really could use someone to talk to. I'm ecstatic but also terrified every time I got to the BR that I'll see blood again I don't know how I'm going to get through the next 8 weeks if I am this worried the whole time!

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First of all congrats!!
but I'm sorry about how you're feeling I understand exactly how you feel
it's really hard because you constantly worry --but try to stay strong and believe that everything will be ok
and lots of stick dust to you

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congrats! Unfortunatly the joy of being pregnant kinda goes out the window when u exp a mc. I dont have any children and have had 2 mc this past year. One at 8 wks one at 9.
I am now 8 1/2 wks preg again. I got my bfp at 10dpiui. im not gonna lie and say it gets better. LOL
Im scared but i know theres nothing i can do. Just keep strong and know that u are doing EVERYTHING u can to have a healthy little one.
Good luck!!!!

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congrats!!! I had a m/c in January and got pg 2 weeks after the D&C...I am 6 weeks now and freaking out! I am going for sonos weekly. I wish that I could be really excited but I am extremely nervous

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Congrats! It's so hard to not be terrified everytime you go to the bathroom after going through that....but there really isn't much you can do but stick it out. I did get my progesterone and hcg checked, but even when that came back fine I was still paranoid.

Can you see if you can get into the doc a bit earlier so that you can see if things are okay? Once I hit six weeks and saw a HB I felt a little better- it might be better for your own mental health to see if they will do that for you.

Good luck!

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That's great news! I understand your anxiety though.

Good luck and Keep us posted on this board...BFPs after miscarriages give us hope!

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Congratulations!!!! that's wonderful news.
I'm in the same boat as you only 4w6d and totally terrified of the same thing happening all over again. Every trip to the BR is a tense moment. Its terrible that we don't have the luxury of just enjoying this. I'm here if you need to talk or get your anxiety out over the next eight weeks.

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Bump (under my real name). Update to link on Parenting
Link to Parenting

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I am so very sorry - FOR EVERYTHING - that you are going through right now. My are iwth you an dyour DC!

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Oh, I am so very sorry! I had my m/c the same week that my DD was hospitalized as well. In some ways it took my mind off of my troubles...and made me focus on what I DO have.

I hope your son is home very soon (if not already!)!!! Be well...