over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I tried to get so many answers about my first loss at 16Weeks. my OB was just awful, and i wasn't getting anywhere with him.
and he told me that there was no records to get from the hospital.. so i just had to deal with the unkown.

SO, i finally met a new OB the other day and he asked if i had records from the hospital , and i told him the story.. well he said NO WAY.. they HAVE to have records, and everything that happened, etc.
so today i sent out the release form, and i am so anxious to get them.. maybe i can FINALLY have some closure, and some answers


it just saddens me that all this time, i had nothing to go on.. my OB called it a fluke, and just was so horrible to me.

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I wanna punch that first OB in the freakin face!!!!!!

I'm so glad this new doctor is helping get you some answers. Its not fair that you've had no closure all this time.

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I am glad that your new OB is finally going to get some answers for you. That is terrible how your other OB treated you....what a shame!

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Hope you get some answers finally!

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Wow I really hope you get your answers! you deserve it!

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I'm so sorry you went through that.

It sounds like you are in good hands now.

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Deanna, I hope you find the peace you are looking for.

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I hope you get some answers soon!

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thank you all so much for your kind words!
this is all just bittersweet for me i guess.. even if i don't find the answers i was looking for.. at least i tried, and i will for sure have more closure, instead of wondering why, and how, all the time.

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I hope you get the answers you deserve!!!

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I hope you get some answers- it seems hard to believe that a loss that late was a "fluke". At the very least, it will give your new doc the info he needs to make sure it never happens again....

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That sucks, doctors sometime have such bad bedside manner. However, on the flip side, I was very happy to find out that my late loss at 19 weeks was just a fluke, it was a better result than finding out something serious was wrong.

I hope you get your answers.

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i cant believe that dr said it was a "fluke" at 16 weeks and didnt investigate it further. That just annoyes the crap out of me.
Thank goodness u found a dr who seems to be on top of things.

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Thinking of you Deanna

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I hope your new OB will be able to give you the answers you need for closure.. and pray you and your DH be blessed with a DC soon