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It's me again...

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avamamma
My Girl

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It's me again...

Thank you all for your responses to my other post.

I am going to have the Psychologist observe her and then I am going to get an eval by a Psychologist that he recommends. My insurance will only cover Doctors who are "in network", otherwise, after we meet the deductible, we will be reimbursed 70%.

I have been to a Developmental Ped, a sleep specialist 2x, a nutritionist, a Psychiatrist and this new Psychologist.

She rec'd Speech and OT for Pre-K this year for her eating and pragmatic issues. There was little improvement. She went to school 2 1/2 hrs a day/5 days a week.

She was well behaved an cooperative there. At home and in public places, it is another story.

She was re-evaluted by the classroom teacher, speech and Ot. She had great reports for the classroom and for speech, but goals were not met as far as her eating. Basically, I was told that if there are no problems in the classroom that interfere with learning, then you will get no services.

The Psychologist that I saw yesterday said that based on the 2 hour long discusiion that we had, that Ava may be on the Autism Spectrum- highly functioning. He mentioned Aspergers Syndrome.

I have researched it today, and I definately see that she has some of the symptoms, but not all.

What does this mean, what do I do next??? This has been going on for over 3 years, and emotionally, I am at a loss. This has affected my DD, my self, my marraige and our family.

It breaks my heart on a daily basis and I fear that she will never have an easy, happy, normal life.

ALL I WANT IS AN ANSWER!!!! Please, someone tell me what is wrong, so I can fix it!!!I will do whatever it is that I need to do.. Just give me a name, a disagnosis, a label... I will deal with it, I will pick myself up, I will join a support group and finally help my daughter and our entire family....

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Sorry, I had to vent.

Posted 7/21/09 8:57 PM
 

groovypeg
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have you called the cody center or the fay j. linder center? they are great resources and can evaluate ava.

Posted 7/22/09 9:05 AM
 

LoveBeingMrsT
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Posted 7/22/09 9:56 PM
 

FranM
And so it goes....

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Chat Icon I have heard really good things about The Cody Center at Stonybrook

There is also Dr Federichi. He is is out of state but I have heard from Moms on other boards that he has been a lifesaver for thier families.

Im just curious what school district you are in and if you have full or half day K.

Posted 7/24/09 9:00 AM
 
 
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