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zoe282
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I'm frustrated!
So I want to vent and I figure this is a good spot to do it. So like I posted last week the doctor saw fluid on the sono...then Sunday evening I started to bleed again..thought it was AF..spoke to a doctor Monday (not my dr) and she said it's probably not AF and is probably the fluid...anyway...I'm STILL BLEEDING! like not a little like a lot! I called my doctor yesterday and he's like there is no definite answer. Your body is going to do what it's going to do..but I HATE that answer. I was like so that TINY fluid spot makes me bleed for 4 days? he's like it could..I'm like so this is def not AF and he's like I don't know. I asked if this will affect when I get AF and he said no. My body will ovulate when it's time...there is nothng to do or no real answers. But why am i bleeding so much now?? I hate no answers. 
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
I have no answers but you know Im right there with you. Just when you think the bleeding is going to stop, it starts again. Yesterday morning I was in a good mood because i thought it was finally stopping. Then lo and behold I go to the bathroom and hello fresh blood I seriously felt sick after that. Today has been about the same.
This whole thing S U C K S. I hate to be blunt but as soon as the doctor gives me clearance to start BD'ing again Im just going to go for it and let it be in God's hands. Im sick of trying to figure out my body
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| Posted 8/6/09 10:57 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by Lisa982006
I have no answers but you know Im right there with you. Just when you think the bleeding is going to stop, it starts again. Yesterday morning I was in a good mood because i thought it was finally stopping. Then lo and behold I go to the bathroom and hello fresh blood I seriously felt sick after that. Today has been about the same.
This whole thing S U C K S. I hate to be blunt but as soon as the doctor gives me clearance to start BD'ing again Im just going to go for it and let it be in God's hands. Im sick of trying to figure out my body
I was thinking the same thing! So you are bleeding too? So wierd! I wish it could be like...ok..this is how it's gonna go..and I can prepare for that. but because everyone is different they cant! I am going to do the same. Once bleeding stops I'm going to go about my business. Not test or anything but not prevent. like you said in God's hand. Like i've said before my neighbor got pg before AF and only BD'd ONCE! and she just had a beautiful baby boy. I hate not knowing what's gonig on w/ my body but like you said...i should just do it and see what happens
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| Posted 8/6/09 11:01 AM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Yeah Im still bleeding. Its really the weirdest thing because its like spurts. Like Monday, I had that really bad bleeding I told you about, I mean really bad, globs and all (TMI sorry) but then by the end of the day it was brown and tapering off. Then Tuesday was just very light brown, didnt even need a pad. Same thing through yesterday morning so Im FINALLY thinking its stopping but then NO, I realize Im bleeding a little more and now its slightly redder as if its new.
I dont know if moving around has something to do with it or what but its almost like a cut that keeps opening. Today, so far, has really been the lightest, almost non existant but Im not getting my hopes up because I know at any moment it may start again. I just cant wait to go to the doctor next week and see what the deal is.
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| Posted 8/6/09 11:25 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: I'm frustrated!
I am totally dealing with the same thing. Exact symptoms! Globs and all (TMI TOO lol) ***!
I googled it even though I told myself I wouldn't, and like my doctor said it could just be mid cycle bleeding due to wacky hormones.
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| Posted 8/6/09 11:28 AM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Thats what my mother keeps saying; its all the hormones. I really wonder what the next step is though. Do you think I will have to keep seeing the doctor until I regulate again? I wonder if he will be able to tell from the sono if anything is going on in there
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| Posted 8/6/09 11:33 AM |
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zoe282
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Re: I'm frustrated!
I have to go back on the 13th since he saw that fluid on the sono. I guess it depends on your doctor. My doctor doesn't really do blood tests. He just said once I get AF to go ahead and try...so I am sure after that appt I'm on my own.
What did your doc say? do you have another appt at all?
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| Posted 8/6/09 11:36 AM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
I have my first appt on the 13th. He wanted to wait until 2 weeks after the D&C to see me again. He had said in the hospital (because impatient me asked) that I should wait 2 cycles to start trying again. I want to wait though and see what the sono shows. I think if the lining looks thick again Im going to go for it. I dont think my body was ever the problem; I truly believe it was just a bad egg/sperm combo. The first sono I had at 5 weeks showed a thick lining and then even again at 7 weeks, when the HB was slow, he said the lining looked really good; that everything looked good really except the HB
Im planning on asking him a million questions, so I'll be sure to fill you in 
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| Posted 8/6/09 11:42 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: I'm frustrated!
So it's the same day Make sure to write your questions down. I feel like I always get flustered at the doc's office. Ya i went 2 weeks after my m/c and now I have to go again My doctor didn't say 2 months. I thik they say that because if you don't wait then they have a hard time telling when you concieved and your cycles. For example if you get pg before you get AF then they have no idea how far along you are...and even if you don't wait 2 cycles they can't tell if you are a 28 day cycle or 35...so I personally think that's the main reason.
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| Posted 8/6/09 11:50 AM |
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mrsmck
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Re: I'm frustrated!
I can relate to the frustration. My m/c began on 7/13 and I only stopped bleeding yesterday. It wasn't a lot, but more like annoying AF bleeding.
After my first m/c in March, I only bled for 2 days afterward.
Each one is different and I guess our bodies react accordingly. What can you do? I've learned to go with it....
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| Posted 8/6/09 12:29 PM |
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kristin597
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Jen, what do they mean when they said they saw fluid on the sono?
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| Posted 8/6/09 12:46 PM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
I think youre right about the 2 cycle thing; its only so they can date the pregnancy. Im going things different this time; im not doing the sonos so early again. When I find out Im PG again, I will have him test the progesterone (he said he would anyway) and then thats it. No sonos until 8 weeks Im just not putting myself through the waiting and wondering and worrying again.
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| Posted 8/6/09 12:49 PM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by mrsmck
I can relate to the frustration. My m/c began on 7/13 and I only stopped bleeding yesterday. It wasn't a lot, but more like annoying AF bleeding.
After my first m/c in March, I only bled for 2 days afterward.
Each one is different and I guess our bodies react accordingly. What can you do? I've learned to go with it....
Im sorry for your losses  I had to have a D&C so maybe thats why Im bleeding for so long? IDK but youre right everyone is different and its just a waiting game I guess in the beginning.
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zoe282
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by kristin597
Jen, what do they mean when they said they saw fluid on the sono?
There was a little circle thing on the sono showing there was stuff still in my uterous. No like the sac or anything he just called it fluid said it was nothing to worry about...I'm guessing that is what is passing out now
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| Posted 8/6/09 1:14 PM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
I wonder if i had/have fluid left and thats what Im passing? I thought it was pretty much a done deal after the D&C though. So many questions, so little answers....
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| Posted 8/6/09 1:55 PM |
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mrsmck
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by Lisa982006
I wonder if i had/have fluid left and thats what Im passing? I thought it was pretty much a done deal after the D&C though. So many questions, so little answers....
Your body knows what it's supposed to do. As frustrating as it is, just go along....
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| Posted 8/6/09 2:01 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by mrsmck
Posted by Lisa982006
I wonder if i had/have fluid left and thats what Im passing? I thought it was pretty much a done deal after the D&C though. So many questions, so little answers....
Your body knows what it's supposed to do. As frustrating as it is, just go along....
That's pretty much what my doctor told me. it was hard to hear...but i'm trying to with that. I'm a HUGE planner and it's so hard that when it comes to any of this I can't plan...like they way when people plan god laughs! Well he's laughing at me! lol
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| Posted 8/6/09 2:03 PM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Probably rolling on the floor laughing at me too!!
I have to be in control and this is killing me....
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| Posted 8/6/09 2:06 PM |
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kristin597
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by mrsmck
Posted by Lisa982006
I wonder if i had/have fluid left and thats what Im passing? I thought it was pretty much a done deal after the D&C though. So many questions, so little answers....
Your body knows what it's supposed to do. As frustrating as it is, just go along....
ITA! I asked my doctor when should I see you again, should I call you when I get my period? She looked at me and just smiled and said "Stop thinking so hard. Call me when you are pregnant again." The way she said made me feel so much better, like I had to just roll with it.
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| Posted 8/6/09 2:47 PM |
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mommy2B3
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Re: I'm frustrated!
oh hun, I have no advice, but wanted to offer you some hugs. I swear you will be blessed before you even know it, you deserve it, I still couldn't believe how quickly you FMed after my loss to let me know you were there, you truly are an amazing person and deserve everything you want!
I hope you get AF soon! so you continue your journey!
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| Posted 8/8/09 12:45 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by mrspalomino148
oh hun, I have no advice, but wanted to offer you some hugs. I swear you will be blessed before you even know it, you deserve it, I still couldn't believe how quickly you FMed after my loss to let me know you were there, you truly are an amazing person and deserve everything you want!
I hope you get AF soon! so you continue your journey!
That is so sweet of you to say thank you very much! I hope I get to continue my journey again soon
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| Posted 8/9/09 3:40 PM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by zoe282
Posted by mrspalomino148
oh hun, I have no advice, but wanted to offer you some hugs. I swear you will be blessed before you even know it, you deserve it, I still couldn't believe how quickly you FMed after my loss to let me know you were there, you truly are an amazing person and deserve everything you want!
I hope you get AF soon! so you continue your journey!
That is so sweet of you to say thank you very much! I hope I get to continue my journey again soon
You will!! We both will be back on that pregnancy board together in no time!!
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| Posted 8/9/09 6:04 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Jen
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Re: I'm frustrated!
Posted by Lisa982006
Posted by zoe282
Posted by mrspalomino148
oh hun, I have no advice, but wanted to offer you some hugs. I swear you will be blessed before you even know it, you deserve it, I still couldn't believe how quickly you FMed after my loss to let me know you were there, you truly are an amazing person and deserve everything you want!
I hope you get AF soon! so you continue your journey!
That is so sweet of you to say thank you very much! I hope I get to continue my journey again soon
You will!! We both will be back on that pregnancy board together in no time!!
I certainly hope so!
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| Posted 8/10/09 8:47 AM |
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LemonHead
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Re: I'm frustrated!
The same thing happened to me with my first mc. I would bleed, then stop bleeding, then bleed again. I know how hard it is- I just wanted it to be over- I felt like it was the never ending miscarriage. It went on for 6 weeks.
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