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babylove628
mommy of two!
Member since 11/09 2733 total posts
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Maggie
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I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
I didn't think my emotions would be such a rollercoaster. I was doing so well, I didn't well up and cry for almost two days and then lastnight it was like a river. I couldn't stop myself, DH felt so bad he just hugged me and told me it will be ok. To make it worse I had a dream that I was pregnant and giving birth  Today is a week since the miscarriage....I hate this!
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Posted 2/11/10 9:14 AM  |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
Member since 12/09 1249 total posts
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Lisa Marie
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
That happened to me a lot. I would say I think I'm fine. And then whoa out of nowhere everything seemed so current again.
It will get better in time
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| Posted 2/11/10 1:11 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
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Jen
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
I'm so sorry...I still go through it Saturday is going to be my original due date and this week I just cry thinking about it...it's o to let it out I'm so sorry
Lean on your DH I know for me it brought us closer because I saw how much I could count on him...
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| Posted 2/11/10 2:02 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Kerri
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
It's something we will never forget and always have moments where we just cry it out.
I also agree with the girl who wrote about leaning on DH. I also feel like it brought us closer together. I think it's important to trust your husband and get through the hardest parts together. Strangely.... it's a positive to a terribly traumatic and sad experience... it's one of the VERY few positives I can think of.
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| Posted 2/11/10 6:05 PM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
Im sorry you are feeling this way
Honestly, I dont think it ever really goes away. Time helps though. Its only been a week for you; its normal and expected that you would still be very upset.
One piece of advice would be not to hold it in. Talk to your DH, family, friends or come on here just to vent. Dont let the pain build up.
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| Posted 2/12/10 9:57 AM |
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inbliss
I'm a mommy to a 2 year old!!!
Member since 1/08 1694 total posts
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Andrea
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
I agree with the pp. It has only been a week. In time it will get a little better. Lean on DH. That is what he is there for.
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| Posted 2/13/10 2:22 PM |
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KMCGK
Gotta have faith
Member since 7/09 2176 total posts
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Keep the Faith
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
Very normal "waves" of grief you are feeling. For me, I felt those waves numerous times. Hang in there, they do get easier and less frequent. Make sure you have an outlet to let all your emotions out or else you'll have an explosion rather than a wave!
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| Posted 2/13/10 3:28 PM |
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PhillyGirl
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/09 890 total posts
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
I'm so sorry you are feeling sad... I agree with what the above posters have said. Hang in there, it will get easier with time, although you never truly get "over it."
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| Posted 2/13/10 4:35 PM |
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
I'm sorry. My best friend said it takes a while to not be a mess.
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| Posted 2/13/10 6:18 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: I was feeling better and now I'm a mess again
Sorry you have been feeling down!! I think we all have those days.
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