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Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

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LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

It seems like a lot of people here just don't want children yet or at all...

Message edited 3/25/2010 10:52:56 AM.

Posted 3/25/10 10:35 AM
 

SusiBee
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Re: Just curiuos- who else is here NOT by choice?

Funny, I was thinking about this the other day. My DH does not want children, but I do (did), and gave up that. I guess I kind of hoped that he would change his mind but that didn't happen. He's 48 and I'm 43 now, and don't think that I could give birth to and raise a child now anyway. Too complicated.

I guess that makes me here not by choice.

Posted 3/25/10 10:49 AM
 

BaseballWidow
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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

Me, but pretty sure you already knew that! Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/10 1:25 PM
 

KLSbear
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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

I don't spend a lot of time here but I fit in the "not by choice" category.

Posted 3/25/10 6:34 PM
 

Jax430
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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

Me. I'd love to be on the Pregnancy and Parenting boards instead...no offense to the lovey ladies here!

Posted 3/25/10 9:05 PM
 

LI-Joy

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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

Posted by KLSbear

I don't spend a lot of time here but I fit in the "not by choice" category.



Same here Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/10 9:46 PM
 

ml110
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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

me... i can't have bio kids, so we're waiting to start the adoption process.
I'm really enjoying being childfree right now, but i think if i wasn't in this situation, we would have at a least one kid by now. Its just taking a lot to work up the nerve to start the adoption process ( we need to get reference letters from neighbors, friends, get finanical reports, a social worker report, etc,etc,etc). so, we do want kids- but for right now, we're making the most of being childfree Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/10 10:08 PM
 

rileysmama
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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

just stopped by on this board, as I do most, seeing what's new.

I just wanted to wish you all that no matter what your heart desires, that you get it.
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sending good vibes to all.Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/10 11:41 PM
 

ihilani
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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

Posted by rileysmama

I just wanted to wish you all that no matter what your heart desires, that you get it.



when you want it and you don't get it = not by choice

I guess I'm here by default. It's not happening, with or without much choice involved, so here I am.

Message edited 3/29/2010 8:16:40 PM.

Posted 3/29/10 8:16 PM
 

BunnyWife
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Re: Just curious- who else is here NOT by choice?

I'm sorry to everyone who is not here by choice. I hope you all find peace.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/10 8:42 PM
 
 

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