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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
Name: Kerri
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It's just one of those days....
UGH!
All I have to show for ever being pregnant is an extra 10 pounds and TERRIBLE skin, including cyctic acne now!!!!
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Posted 6/21/10 4:46 PM |
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marriedandttc
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/08 873 total posts
Name: lauren
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Re: It's just one of those days....
I feel your pain. I am still carring around the extra weight and strech marks from my first miscarriage. I will keep you in my prays. And I know one day we will both celebrating holding our children in our arms.
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Posted 6/21/10 5:37 PM |
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babylove628
mommy of two!
Member since 11/09 2733 total posts
Name: Maggie
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Re: It's just one of those days....
I feel your pain! I gained 5 lbs the first time and didnt lose it, then put on another 5 lbs the second time, so here I am 2 miscarriages later, 10 lbs heavier and my freakin pants dont fit!
on a positive note, I just ordered myself a pair of rollerblades bc I will lost at least 5 lbs before I get knocked up again.
Hope you feel better sweetie
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Posted 6/21/10 5:40 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
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Name: Jackie
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Re: It's just one of those days....
Sorry you're having a rough day.
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Posted 6/21/10 6:34 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
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Re: It's just one of those days....
It does suck!!!!!!!!! Going through a miscarriage with all the changes your body goes through and the emotional aspect are just not fair!! I had gained a good 10 + lbs after my miscarriages too.
I'm sorry you are having a bad!!!
I am sure you still look beautiful!
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Posted 6/21/10 6:39 PM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Re: It's just one of those days....
i feel your pain too! i've gained 40 POUNDS since losing our baby last year! 20 was pregnancy weight and 20 was from being so damn depressed for so long! i ate through the grief apparently.
now i'm sitting here going through a loss again and i'm so annoyed that my boobies hurt but there's no baby growing in me.
our bodies play dirty dirty tricks on us!!
on the flip side...i started weight watchers a week ago and lost 4 pounds already.
i'm sorry you're having a hard day. we are all here for you to vent
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Posted 6/21/10 6:39 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
Name: Kerri
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Re: It's just one of those days....
Posted by keepingsecrets
i feel your pain too! i've gained 40 POUNDS since losing our baby last year! 20 was pregnancy weight and 20 was from being so damn depressed for so long! i ate through the grief apparently.
now i'm sitting here going through a loss again and i'm so annoyed that my boobies hurt but there's no baby growing in me.
our bodies play dirty dirty tricks on us!!
on the flip side...i started weight watchers a week ago and lost 4 pounds already.
i'm sorry you're having a hard day. we are all here for you to vent
I'm SOOO sorry that you are in the mist of another loss. It's just so wrong and not fair at all. I'm really sorry!!
Yesterday was just SO HARD for me becuase this was a cycle that I REALLY thought there was something happening. Now, I just think it is my body getting back on track after the mc. My boobs were mush for a few months... not hanging or anything like that... but mushy where you would probably really slap them around and no pain at all. And now they are coming back to where they were. They used to hurt before I got my period before I got pregnant... and after the mc that stopped. This cycle they hurt like when I was pregnant.... and so that REALLY threw me for a loop and tricked me big time. Then the fall was just painful. I was sooo upset yesterday (and still am a little bit) but all there is to do is move on I suppose.
I'm so glad i'm not the only one who gained weight bc of all this. I've been feeling like a cow lately!! The 10 pounds I said I added on... that's JUST what I gained while I was pregnant for those months. Then after that i gained probably about another 15. I ate through the greif as well... and i also had some problems with anxiety so I went up and down bit too. Now I'm up quite a bit from my weight pre pregnancy. I've been thinking a lot about starting WW. I just have to get started on it, and that seems to be the hard part.... but I'm almost there!!
Thanks for listening and letting me vent girls! Yesterday was REALLY REALLY hard and I so wasn't expecting that! I had to observe a class for work and I was fighting tears nearly the entire day.
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Posted 6/22/10 8:29 AM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
Name: Kerri
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Re: It's just one of those days....
Posted by bride07
It does suck!!!!!!!!! Going through a miscarriage with all the changes your body goes through and the emotional aspect are just not fair!! I had gained a good 10 + lbs after my miscarriages too.
I'm sorry you are having a bad!!!
I am sure you still look beautiful!
aww thank you! So much!!! I couldn't agree more. Everything you said is what I was feeling yesterday!! I was soooo sad that AF came when I thought this cycle there was a MAJOR possibility something else was going on... then it just reminded me of my loss all over again and all I could think about was the physical changes I now have along with the emotional effects this whole ordeal has had and then to add to it alll... the end result is no baby. It's like you go through that all for nothing in the end!!!
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Posted 6/22/10 8:33 AM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
Name: Kerri
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Re: It's just one of those days....
Posted by babylove628
I feel your pain! I gained 5 lbs the first time and didnt lose it, then put on another 5 lbs the second time, so here I am 2 miscarriages later, 10 lbs heavier and my freakin pants dont fit!
on a positive note, I just ordered myself a pair of rollerblades bc I will lost at least 5 lbs before I get knocked up again.
Hope you feel better sweetie
DH and I are planning on getting bikes. But I love rollerblading and mentioned getting them too. I just have no one to rollerblade with. I don't know anyone that rollerblades anymore.
GOOD LUCK to you!!!
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Posted 6/22/10 8:34 AM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
Name: Kerri
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Re: It's just one of those days....
Posted by marriedandttc
I feel your pain. I am still carring around the extra weight and strech marks from my first miscarriage. I will keep you in my prays. And I know one day we will both celebrating holding our children in our arms.
Thank you so much for this!!
Same for you too!!!
For us all...
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Posted 6/22/10 8:35 AM |
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our-secret
LIF Infant
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Re: It's just one of those days....
I feel your pain as well. I gained about 10 pounds as well from all this. It is so hard to stay positive sometimes. At least we have each other as support.
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Posted 6/22/10 5:30 PM |
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hotsauce345
my love, my life, my son
Member since 1/09 4169 total posts
Name: Melody
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Re: It's just one of those days....
I've been feeling down these past few days too...I'm angry, sad, feel like giving up and saying...maybe god was trying to just tell uhubby and I we're not ready...maybe we never will be. It doesn't help that I just skimmed thru pregnancy and saw the "October Mommies" thread :o(
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Posted 6/22/10 11:12 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
Name: Kerri
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Re: It's just one of those days....
Posted by MrsMeloyellow
I've been feeling down these past few days too...I'm angry, sad, feel like giving up and saying...maybe god was trying to just tell uhubby and I we're not ready...maybe we never will be. It doesn't help that I just skimmed thru pregnancy and saw the "October Mommies" thread :o(
AHHH I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN!!!! When I see the August mommies thread it's just such a stab in the heart.
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Posted 6/23/10 8:28 AM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
Member since 12/09 1249 total posts
Name: Lisa Marie
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Re: It's just one of those days....
oh girl im with you
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Posted 6/23/10 12:49 PM |
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