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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
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Kara®
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Dealing with the BFN.
DH held me for a half hour while I cried. Then he let me stay in bed for a half hour on my own.
Now I am at my desk again. I made an appointment to meet with my Dr. TOMORROW so I can get back on the bandwagon.
DH says he is taking me out for a liquid dinner tonight, wherever I want.
I would prefer a BFP but when life gives you lemons......
What really sux is now I have to go back to carrying laundry again...
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Diane
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
oh Kara....my heart goes out to you and I wish I were next to you giving you a hug.
I know how hard it is, and getting BFN after BFN S U C K S!!!!!!
I know the last thing you want to hear is that it will happen.
Stay strong......each night I say a prayer for you and the all you wonderful ladies
Message edited 6/5/2006 4:10:16 PM.
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:09 PM |
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Red
spring is in the air
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helen
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Kara - I love the way you dealt with it - you're doing the right thing. Good Luck, enjoy dinner and squeeze one more load of laundry out of DH
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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
We'll see....I am also vowing to go back to weight watchers.....SOMETIME this week...lol.
I am also about to get on the treadmill -- after I blow off all the dust!! THEN I will go out for a 3-gallon martini...
Message edited 6/5/2006 4:19:52 PM.
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Red
spring is in the air
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helen
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
WW can wait one more day
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:15 PM |
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Sharon
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
I'm so sorry Kara. I wish no one had to feel the pain you are going through now, as many of us have gone through before. I have no words to comfort you, but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know your time is coming. 
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:21 PM |
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ana6178
Praying for a miracle!
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
I wish I could give you a hug!
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:26 PM |
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casey31
Mommy of 3!
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Posted by ana6178
I wish I could give you a hug!
Me too! I feel  and  !
I think a liquid dinner tonight will hit the spot! 
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:35 PM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Kara,
I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say. You worked so hard to prep your body for this.
is all I think I can do.
I swear I will absolutely loose it if one of us is not a graduate... it's just not fair.
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:43 PM |
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mrsmck
Be a big girl!
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
K, I know how much you wanted this!! I wish I knew what to say to make you feel better.
You have a great DH, so let him pamper you with a 10-gallon liquid dinner and lots of
You can carry my laundry if it'll make you feel better.
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:52 PM |
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leighla
Support Cancer Research
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Lauren
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
I'm with you sister!
Although I shouldn't drink on the Metformin, I plan on throwing caution to the wind and having the biggest dirty martini I can find.
I too have vowed to start weight watchers again and lose the weight before we move to IVF. I'm tired of feeling fat and using TTC as an excuse!!
On the bright side for me today, I worked from home because I was worried the news would be bad and I had to call Cablevision to fix our modem.
When they got here, they asked if my parents were home and made me show them ID because they didn't believe I was 18 or older!!
I turn 31 on Wednesday!! 
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| Posted 6/5/06 5:01 PM |
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juju
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Kara, I really wanted this month to be your month.  
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| Posted 6/5/06 5:17 PM |
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rose825
Best Friends
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Hang in there, and feel free to stay in bed longer. Like I said after my second BFN I cried for like a half hour and then went on with my life, saying I was OK, and it was the worst thing I could have done. Feel free to bittch, complain, yell, shout, break things (just not the family jewels). But I love your sense of humor and that will certainly help.
Posted by karacg
I would prefer a BFP but when life gives you lemons......
make hard lemonade? Long Island Ice Teas?
I say have a purple mother f---er for me!
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BigB
C & J are 10!
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Oh Kara,
I am so sorry! All I can send you are tons of
And all the best for a BFP soon!
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| Posted 6/5/06 5:33 PM |
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robcoll1002
My Beautiful Babies
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Are we sharing a brain? I just had a wonderful liquid dinner that consisted of very delicious, much needed bananna daiquaries(?). Go and ENJOY!
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| Posted 6/5/06 7:02 PM |
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Tumbalina
Better than the news!
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
So sorry.
Sounds like you have an amazing hubby though!
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| Posted 6/5/06 7:35 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
I drink too
ONLY thing I feel I have left...so raise your cup and say heres to crappy timing and
all the stupid azz cliques that go along with it! 
YOur gonna be ok....the dissapoint will pass in a few days, give way to anger and finally some defeat and then you will be able to mvoe on...
we are all here to help ya each step of the way!
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| Posted 6/5/06 8:21 PM |
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michele31
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
I am soooo truly sorry. I just can't find the right words..but....
Tell DH that cleaning bathrooms is known to be bad for TTC
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| Posted 6/5/06 9:50 PM |
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anedi
LIF Infant
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Diane
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
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krashnburn
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
I'm very sorry for everything, but it sounds like you have a good attitude about continuing, which is very important for success!!!
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| Posted 6/6/06 7:46 AM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: Dealing with the BFN.
Kara,
I can't tell you how sorry I am for you. I really feel bad for you and your DH and hope that you are handling it better now that you had your liquid dinner.
My heart is breaking for you as you go through this
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