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dm24angel
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Message edited 6/8/2006 7:06:38 AM.
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Posted 6/7/06 7:34 PM  |
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Message edited 6/8/2006 11:01:56 AM.
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| Posted 6/7/06 8:15 PM |
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michele31
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Re: Touchy question ( friend situation)
I am not in the same situation but I don't think a previous abortion or anyone's feelings around an unplanned pregnancy enter in to how they feel now or how deserving they are to now get pregnant.
Some people are just not able to take control of what is going on and take charge and be pro-active. It drives me nuts since I am a very take charge person but I also would not go out of my way to do soooo much for those types of people. I am one who will offer to help but if it not accepted and really wanted I just back off. I am sorry that you are going thru so much right now. I am sure your heart aches and it is hard to hear others complain and not be pro-active about what is happening.
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| Posted 6/7/06 8:27 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Donna
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Re: Touchy question ( friend situation)
Posted by michele31
I am not in the same situation but I don't think a previous abortion or anyone's feelings around an unplanned pregnancy enter in to how they feel now or how deserving they are to now get pregnant.
Some people are just not able to take control of what is going on and take charge and be pro-active. It drives me nuts since I am a very take charge person but I also would not go out of my way to do soooo much for those types of people. I am one who will offer to help but if it not accepted and really wanted I just back off. I am sorry that you are going thru so much right now. I am sure your heart aches and it is hard to hear others complain and not be pro-active about what is happening.
Trust me I 100% believes she deserves to be pregnant, of course I do.
I dont hold her abortion against her. It only enters my mind when she says she doesnt understand why no one understands why she cant be happy for them, because this is all shes ever wanted. Naturally I get this notion to think, no...you didnt always want it...you want it this bad NOW, so try to understand the rest of us going through it , feel the same way.....
I dont doubt how desperately she wants a child and I WISH for her to get PG or I wouldnt try to help her as much as I do. Its just lately...maybe emotionally Im messed up I am getting really defensive of her always saying how no one understands how much she wants a baby.... I DO understand yet she still acts as if her "situation" is worse....which is silly, yet of course as I am human, leads me to look at her past actions and then weigh the two of us. ITs not something Im proud of , and yet I dont know how to get past these feelings of resentment . I have tried keeping a distance from her but it hasnt seemed to work.
We work together and she has horrible things to say about every PG women there. I of course am jealous of them, but wish them nothing but happiness deep down inside, and Im just ready to blow and say stupid things, like either take charge of your life or shut up about it all ready.
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