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Why do people assume you are the parent?

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PrincessVonTrockel
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Natalie

Why do people assume you are the parent?

So my condo complex has a pool and we have a lifeguard on duty. She is a young pretty girl about 18 yrs old....so the other day I bring my little cousin (6yrs old) to the pool and the lifeguard asked

"Is she your sister?"

Instead of the other 3 people who have seen me with her in the past 6 years and have told her

"Tell your mommy..."
and I love that she tells them
"She's not my mommy she is my favorite cousin!"


Message edited 7/13/2010 1:59:09 PM.

Posted 7/13/10 1:55 PM
 

tourist

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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?

If I saw an adult with a child I would most likely think it was the parent, even thought I know it could be an aunt, cousin, sister, babysitter, etc.

At least they don't think you are her grandmother! Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/10 3:26 PM
 

dfw343
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?

People always assume I am my SD's Mom. They say we look alike (we kinda dont see it but whatever). She said to me other day "just go with it, it's easier".

People love to ASSume!

Posted 7/13/10 5:16 PM
 

Christine
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?

Posted by tourist

If I saw an adult with a child I would most likely think it was the parent, even thought I know it could be an aunt, cousin, sister, babysitter, etc.

At least they don't think you are her grandmother! Chat Icon



Ditto! I compulsively let people know that I am the aunt when I am out with my niece or nephew.


and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon on the grandma comment.

Posted 7/13/10 6:18 PM
 

PrincessVonTrockel
Trophy Wife in Training

Member since 11/09

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Name:
Natalie

Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?

Posted by Christine

I compulsively let people know that I am the aunt when I am out with my niece or nephew.




OMG I do this with my cousin too!!!!

Posted 7/13/10 6:47 PM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?

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I was at a party recently, holding Ophelia's son and someone thought he was mine!

I didn't mind though Chat Icon

Posted 7/14/10 12:21 AM
 

DiamondGirl
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Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?

Eh, I guess bc you (or I, person in question) is of child bearing age and the only adult w/the child.

When I was teenager I was a nanny and I was in the park with my little guy a lot. Moms there were whispering that I was his mom Chat Icon and in a tisk tisk look at that teen mom kinda way. I thought it was quiet funny!

Posted 7/14/10 9:02 AM
 

meli722
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Member since 11/09

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Mommmmyyyyyy!!

Re: Why do people assume you are the parent?

I get the opposite...lol..i get asked if my daughter is my sister or my niece all the time..i guess its because i look 17 instead of 27

Posted 7/14/10 11:06 PM
 
 

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