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waterspout4
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Posted 6/15/06 1:09 AM
 
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waterspout4
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Message edited 6/15/2006 12:07:58 PM.

Posted 6/15/06 1:14 AM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by waterspout4

And because of the previous posts, and FMs, I am to assume that my time here at LIF is done.

I guess my wondering about my tumor and wondering about TTC is done because I am pro-life. Who knew I came to a site that was so against a woman who loved God?

First of all we are NOT against god we Just dont find some of these posts necessarily have to be on the ttc board I am sorry you have a Tumor But posting about abortion on the board is very unconsiderate to the people trying ttc and its hurts us reading about that Yes it was fine you posted it on the FHF but Not here! and yes we are pro-choice about Abortion. and this is a great site with Great people you just ruffled some feathers maybe if you posted about other stuff maybe you will get a better response! yes we are against the Way you posted about abortion and Again we love god but we dont have to preach about him on here to show it!Chat Icon Chat Icon

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Posted 6/15/06 6:19 AM
 

justthe4ofus
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

The nastiness you may be experiencing is due to the nasty tone in your posts and the snippiness! Here is one example!!!

Posted by waterspout4

Maybe you'll applaud the fact that my brain MRI found a tumor, but I found this profound.


Excuse me for trying to find someone that would comfort me.



And this

Posted by waterspout4

Who knew I came to a site that was so against a woman who loved God?



Were either statement necessary??? There are MANY very religious women on this site and NONE of them feel the need to preach! I for one a 34 year old mother and a teacher and I do need someone telling me or preaching to me about being pro life and then questioning my belief in G-d!! Who do you think you are???

If you want to continue to post here without ruffling more feathers I strongly suggest that you think about what you are posting and how you are posting and especially WHERE you are posting it!!

There are plenty of women on this site that love a good debate but I can't think of one that feels the need to preach or one that enjoys being preached to!

Maybe you can take a lesson on class from Deb G who is also going through something similar and not conducting herself like you!

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Posted 6/15/06 6:35 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by Jamie

The nastiness you may be experiencing is due to the nasty tone in your posts and the snippiness! Here is one example!!!

Posted by waterspout4

Maybe you'll applaud the fact that my brain MRI found a tumor, but I found this profound.


Excuse me for trying to find someone that would comfort me.



And this

Posted by waterspout4

Who knew I came to a site that was so against a woman who loved God?



Were either statement necessary??? There are MANY very religious women on this site and NONE of them feel the need to preach! I for one a 34 year old mother and a teacher and I do need someone telling me or preaching to me about being pro life and then questioning my belief in G-d!! Who do you think you are???

If you want to continue to post here without ruffling more feathers I strongly suggest that you think about what you are posting and how you are posting and especially WHERE you are posting it!!

There are plenty of women on this site that love a good debate but I can't think of one that feels the need to preach or one that enjoys being preached to!

Maybe you can take a lesson on class from Deb G who is also going through something similar and not conducting herself like you!

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well said Jamie

Posted 6/15/06 8:55 AM
 

Redhead
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Jennifer

Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by waterspout4

And because of the previous posts, and FMs, I am to assume that my time here at LIF is done.

I guess my wondering about my tumor and wondering about TTC is done because I am pro-life. Who knew I came to a site that was so against a woman who loved God?



and maybe you should go back to reading your bible...

statments like this:
Travel Agent: (I won’t even dignify this with a grade)
Don’t worry, she can’t screw up your HM, she died.

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Posted 6/15/06 9:07 AM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by waterspout4

Maybe you'll applaud the fact that my brain MRI found a tumor, but I found this profound.

I am sorry to have offended anyone. I am just trying to find anything to keep me going to have a child when most hope is lost.

I am really sorry. I am just having a hard time here when my DH has been hospitalized and then I find out I have a tumor. I'm looking for insipration. Not the right place to post. Excuse me for trying to find someone that would comfort me.



I don't understand... now you're the victim? If you needed inspiration and hope for your situation, why wouldn't you post about THAT? People would have offered tons of prayers and support like we have done for DebG who is in a similar situation. But to start a thread on ANY board entitled "Ruffle some feathers" does NOT convey reaching out for inspiration, support, hope or anything like that. It says I want to ruffle feathers.

Posted 6/15/06 9:20 AM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by BabyAvocado

Posted by waterspout4

Maybe you'll applaud the fact that my brain MRI found a tumor, but I found this profound.

I am sorry to have offended anyone. I am just trying to find anything to keep me going to have a child when most hope is lost.

I am really sorry. I am just having a hard time here when my DH has been hospitalized and then I find out I have a tumor. I'm looking for insipration. Not the right place to post. Excuse me for trying to find someone that would comfort me.



I don't understand... now you're the victim? If you needed inspiration and hope for your situation, why wouldn't you post about THAT? People would have offered tons of prayers and support like we have done for DebG who is in a similar situation. But to start a thread on ANY board entitled "Ruffle some feathers" does NOT convey reaching out for inspiration, support, hope or anything like that. It says I want to ruffle feathers.



Well said. I agree completely. If you need support, the ask for it.

Posted 6/15/06 9:29 AM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

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Stephanie

Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by waterspout4

Maybe you'll applaud the fact that my brain MRI found a tumor, but I found this profound.

I am sorry to have offended anyone. I am just trying to find anything to keep me going to have a child when most hope is lost.

I am really sorry. I am just having a hard time here when my DH has been hospitalized and then I find out I have a tumor. I'm looking for insipration. Not the right place to post. Excuse me for trying to find someone that would comfort me.



Honestly, if you think ANY of us would applaud the fact that you have a tumor, you need to seek serious professional help....I hope you get it.

Posted 6/15/06 10:44 AM
 

DebG
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Now this post upsets me.
We all have our crosses to bear! As everyone here knows I have a tumor in my head as well. I tried to get pregnant for almost 3 years and had 8 miscarriages in my plight.
Does that make my cross to bear anymore worse than yours? NO, NO it does not...and it does not make your situation worse than mine. I think your aproach on this board has been horrible. You state that you were looking for someone to comfort you? Well I was trying to help you. You have a pituatatry tumor and I tried to give you hope by letting you know that my SIL has one as well and that she currently IS pregnant with twins! (which are healthy and will be delivered in just over two weeks).
Your approach is harsh, I think you might feel you are entitlited to this particular approach but you are not.
People on this site have been EXTREMLY supportive to me, NO ONE has responded to me the way they are responding to you and its all about the way you post v. the way I post.
These women are my friends. Do I debate with them? HELL YEAH! Do I always agree with them? HELL NO! DO I wish ill on any of them or preach to them to make them feel bad? HELL NO! There are grown women here who do NOT need to be told how they should feel nor should they be made to feel bad for thier beliefs.
Ugh I am babbeling now, but this post reallllllly ruffled my feathers. But then again, by the title of your first post, wasn't that your intention from the begining?

Posted 6/15/06 11:09 AM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by waterspout4

And because of the previous posts, and FMs, I am to assume that my time here at LIF is done.

I guess my wondering about my tumor and wondering about TTC is done because I am pro-life. Who knew I came to a site that was so against a woman who loved God?

Chat Icon you are a self righteous fool!

I am sorry that you have a tumor, but if you are looking for pity, calling people who are pro choice Godless, is not the best way to get it!
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Posted 6/15/06 11:10 AM
 

SweetestOfPeas
J'taime Paris!

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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by DebG

Now this post upsets me.
We all have our crosses to bear! As everyone here knows I have a tumor in my head as well. I tried to get pregnant for almost 3 years and had 8 miscarriages in my plight.
Does that make my cross to bear anymore worse than yours? NO, NO it does not...and it does not make your situation worse than mine. I think your aproach on this board has been horrible. You state that you were looking for someone to comfort you? Well I was trying to help you. You have a pituatatry tumor and I tried to give you hope by letting you know that my SIL has one as well and that she currently IS pregnant with twins! (which are healthy and will be delivered in just over two weeks).
Your approach is harsh, I think you might feel you are entitlited to this particular approach but you are not.
People on this site have been EXTREMLY supportive to me, NO ONE has responded to me the way they are responding to you and its all about the way you post v. the way I post.
These women are my friends. Do I debate with them? HELL YEAH! Do I always agree with them? HELL NO! DO I wish ill on any of them or preach to them to make them feel bad? HELL NO! There are grown women here who do NOT need to be told how they should feel nor should they be made to feel bad for thier beliefs.
Ugh I am babbeling now, but this post reallllllly ruffled my feathers. But then again, by the title of your first post, wasn't that your intention from the begining?

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Posted 6/15/06 11:12 AM
 

mskimmy98
My twins are one!!!

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Kimberly

Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by DebG

Now this post upsets me.
We all have our crosses to bear! As everyone here knows I have a tumor in my head as well. I tried to get pregnant for almost 3 years and had 8 miscarriages in my plight.
Does that make my cross to bear anymore worse than yours? NO, NO it does not...and it does not make your situation worse than mine. I think your aproach on this board has been horrible. You state that you were looking for someone to comfort you? Well I was trying to help you. You have a pituatatry tumor and I tried to give you hope by letting you know that my SIL has one as well and that she currently IS pregnant with twins! (which are healthy and will be delivered in just over two weeks).
Your approach is harsh, I think you might feel you are entitlited to this particular approach but you are not.
People on this site have been EXTREMLY supportive to me, NO ONE has responded to me the way they are responding to you and its all about the way you post v. the way I post.
These women are my friends. Do I debate with them? HELL YEAH! Do I always agree with them? HELL NO! DO I wish ill on any of them or preach to them to make them feel bad? HELL NO! There are grown women here who do NOT need to be told how they should feel nor should they be made to feel bad for thier beliefs.
Ugh I am babbeling now, but this post reallllllly ruffled my feathers. But then again, by the title of your first post, wasn't that your intention from the begining?





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Posted 6/15/06 11:15 AM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by DebG

Now this post upsets me.
We all have our crosses to bear! As everyone here knows I have a tumor in my head as well. I tried to get pregnant for almost 3 years and had 8 miscarriages in my plight.
Does that make my cross to bear anymore worse than yours? NO, NO it does not...and it does not make your situation worse than mine. I think your aproach on this board has been horrible. You state that you were looking for someone to comfort you? Well I was trying to help you. You have a pituatatry tumor and I tried to give you hope by letting you know that my SIL has one as well and that she currently IS pregnant with twins! (which are healthy and will be delivered in just over two weeks).
Your approach is harsh, I think you might feel you are entitlited to this particular approach but you are not.
People on this site have been EXTREMLY supportive to me, NO ONE has responded to me the way they are responding to you and its all about the way you post v. the way I post.
These women are my friends. Do I debate with them? HELL YEAH! Do I always agree with them? HELL NO! DO I wish ill on any of them or preach to them to make them feel bad? HELL NO! There are grown women here who do NOT need to be told how they should feel nor should they be made to feel bad for thier beliefs.
Ugh I am babbeling now, but this post reallllllly ruffled my feathers. But then again, by the title of your first post, wasn't that your intention from the begining?

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Posted 6/15/06 11:24 AM
 

Moehick
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

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Posted 6/15/06 11:36 AM
 

DebG
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The cure IS worse!

Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

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Posted 6/15/06 11:36 AM
 

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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by SweetestOfPeas

Posted by waterspout4

And because of the previous posts, and FMs, I am to assume that my time here at LIF is done.

I guess my wondering about my tumor and wondering about TTC is done because I am pro-life. Who knew I came to a site that was so against a woman who loved God?

Chat Icon you are a self righteous fool!

I am sorry that you have a tumor, but if you are looking for pity, calling people who are pro choice Godless, is not the best way to get it!
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Posted 6/15/06 11:57 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: I am very sorry for my previous post, I have been found to have a tumor

Posted by DebG

No need for the sad huggy guy
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Posted 6/15/06 11:58 AM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

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To a brand new year to a healthier me

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Posted 6/15/06 3:43 PM
 

CkGm
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Posted by waterspout4

And because of the previous posts, and FMs, I am to assume that my time here at LIF is done.

I guess my wondering about my tumor and wondering about TTC is done because I am pro-life. Who knew I came to a site that was so against a woman who loved God?

First of all we are NOT against god we Just dont find some of these posts necessarily have to be on the ttc board I am sorry you have a Tumor But posting about abortion on the board is very unconsiderate to the people trying ttc and its hurts us reading about that Yes it was fine you posted it on the FHF but Not here! and yes we are pro-choice about Abortion. and this is a great site with Great people you just ruffled some feathers maybe if you posted about other stuff maybe you will get a better response! yes we are against the Way you posted about abortion and Again we love god but we dont have to preach about him on here to show it!Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 6/15/06 5:21 PM
 

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Posted 6/15/06 5:30 PM
 

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Posted 6/16/06 3:02 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

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Posted by luvsbob4603

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Posted 6/16/06 4:03 PM
 

DebG
Pick a cause & stand up for it

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If I had to venture a guess she was unsure of your need for validation.

Posted 6/16/06 4:27 PM
 

LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

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Posted 6/16/06 4:35 PM
 
 
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