Not sure what to do!!

I am so upset, my leval came back as 8.6 today the lowest in five months of using clomid, and doing the AIH this past month. I have one five year old, and know have pcos leval 2.

I am looking into fostering, but i want a child under five which is hard to get, with an option of adopting possibly, I cant afford adoption and I want at least three- four kids.

I dont know where to turn anymore, maybe i have no choice but to except myself as having one child.

Message edited 7/6/2006 1:11:31 PM.

Re: Not sure what to do!!

My cousin fosters children under five all of the time (mostly babies.) Are you sure it's as hard as you think? I suggest researching some more and speaking with a few of the top agencies you've selected. Like we've all said on other threads, you don't need to be rich to adopt, you just need to reallocate your funds and perhaps take out some loans if need be. I would try to focus on having one more child right now, not 3-4. Deep breaths!

Susan

Re: Not sure what to do!!

I think we can all cheer you on!! Don't give up just yet.
Adoption is more affordable then you think. You are not writing out a full check on Monday..it is in phases. And honestly with some programs it can take over a year or 18 months. With Korea and Ethiopia you don't have to travel if you can't. With China you could easily bring your other children with you to pick up your new baby.
If you are willing to adopt a non-white child/baby there are so many solutions out there for you. You can speak to an agency and they may be able to give you a ton of support
I am so sorry that you are having fertility trouble
How does your husband feel about adoption?

Re: Not sure what to do!!

Your right, thank you, deep breaths, and adoption will be possible somehow, someway!

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