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OffWithHerHead23
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Validation

I posted a while ago about my 11 year old having issues transitioning to the middle school, particularly in on eclass (English). The teacher tells me he is defiant, won't stop talking, isn't turning in his HW, and is failing. DS is now sitting by himself in that class, is grounded forever, I have to check every scrap of HW, and I'm on a weekly email check-in with the teacher Chat Icon

Well, I called his reading teacher today to give her a heads up about the project that was coming her way today. DS is a VERY advanced reader, and is doing his project on a book that is, ultimatelly, about a school shooting. While his analysis is really thought provoking and has provided so many teachable moments, I didn't want the teacher to freak out.

When she called me back, she proceeded to tell me that she has been in constant discussions with DS about the book, that he is an amazing and brilliant young man, he's one in a milion as far as a reader and writer. SHe said, "I'm excited to have a student do a book that can provoke a serious class discussion about violence and bullying, and I can't think of a better kid to address it than your son." When I was getting off the phone she said, "You've raised an amazing young man, regardless of what other teachers who shall remain nameless have to say about him."

Thank you, reading teacher. I needed that. Chat Icon

Message edited 12/15/2011 2:34:24 PM.

Posted 12/15/11 2:27 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Shawn

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Sounds like he just needs to be challenged. He's probably bored out of his mind in his regular classes, and that's how he responds. It happens to a lot of bright kids. Seeing that he's that involved, interested, and insightful on this topic shows that he can put the effort out when it's something that challenges and interests him.

Posted 12/15/11 3:35 PM
 

CathyB

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Posted 12/15/11 3:57 PM
 

BellaRock
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Posted 12/15/11 4:12 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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I'm just curious, why is your son the perfect person to address this? Has he been bulllied?

Posted 12/15/11 5:07 PM
 

OffWithHerHead23
Keep passing the open windows

Member since 10/06

3627 total posts

Name:
Meaghan

Re: Validation

Posted by nrthshgrl

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I'm just curious, why is your son the perfect person to address this? Has he been bulllied?



No, nothing beyond some teasing due to his long hair...

She meant that he was the only one in the class who she felt could properly address the mature theme.

Posted 12/15/11 5:29 PM
 

PrincessP
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Thats great!!!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/11 9:41 PM
 
 

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