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BigSmooch
LIF Adolescent
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There are happy endings
I used to post here a lot after I had a miscarriage at the end of 2010. It was a lot harder on me than I ever expected and it took me quite some time to heal.
Trying to get pregnant again was stressful. Being pregnant again was scary. My pregnancy was not easy. But I made it and I'm a Mom now. There were days that were so bad that I thought that I'd never get to say that but here I am, in 2012 a Mom.
All the advice people gave, everyone telling me it would be okay, well it wasn't always easy to take the advice, or believe it would work out. I just want to say don't lose hope. If you want to be a Mom it will happen for you. Some of you may have a longer journey, a harder time, it might not even happen the way you expected or always imagined it, but don't lose that hope.
And as obnoxious as that saying can be, when I look at my little girl I know things really did happen for a reason, otherwise I wouldn't have her and she is amazingly perfect to me, a perfect fit, meant for me. It all makes sense now in some strange way and even though I'm still sad about "what could have been" I realize I can't dwell on it. My loss humbled me and I truly believe I'm a better Mommy because of it and that is reason enough for me.
I wish all of you lots of luck, tons of  and 
Please don't ever lose hope!
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TaraVinny
my miracle coming October!!!
Member since 10/09 1049 total posts
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Tara
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Re: There are happy endings
thank you!
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| Posted 8/16/12 8:56 PM |
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tomcat
LIF Adult Cat
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Re: There are happy endings
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| Posted 8/16/12 9:07 PM |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
Member since 1/08 8423 total posts
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There are happy endings
this was really well written, i couldn't have said it better myself (although ive probably tried!) 
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| Posted 8/16/12 10:28 PM |
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maymama
my little loves
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Re: There are happy endings
thank you for posting this, i wanted to say it recently on another post but couldnt find the words!!!
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| Posted 8/17/12 12:01 PM |
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frio85
LIF Adult
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Michele
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Re: There are happy endings
Thank you so much for posting this.. it really means a lot.
I miscarried in June and I just started trying again, I am just taking it one day at a time.
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| Posted 8/21/12 12:07 AM |
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