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Sweet
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is it just me or....
does everyone cry when AF is coming and arrives? even if you are not in the middle of a medicated cycle or in the 2ww.
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TyReseGreen
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is it just me or....
I wouldn't cry. I would look forward to AF coming especially if I was about to start a cycle(going through IVF). That's what kept me motivated and somewhat positive. The only times I broke down and cried was when I thought it didn't work but a day later I would get a positive hpt.
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: is it just me or....
I did. Every month except for the month we did IVF. Then I couldn't wait for it to start so I could get my cycle going.
I cried every month when AF showed for 4 Years. It was terrible.
Now I just ***** and moan because it's such a waste to even get AF when I know I can't get PG! Looking forward to the early menopause I'm supposed to be getting lol
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Re: is it just me or....
Of course; it makes me sad, angry, frustrated, depressed.
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hmm
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Re: is it just me or....
Posted by HopelesslyDiscouraged
Of course; it makes me sad, angry, frustrated, depressed.
that is how feel too.
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Re: is it just me or....
Four years ago when we first started doing this, I would. Then we took a break to work on other things. I got to a point where I accepted that we wouldn't have children - except there was always that little whisper in the back of my head that said, "someday". By then I had stopped getting regular periods and was waiting for my cycle to regulate before we tried again. I was more frustrated then, than I am now. Now I know that I am perimenopausal and I am just grateful to be able to have produced three eggs for three iui procedures.
HOWEVER - I am starting to feel that hopelessness and that overwhelming fear that I will always be a mother without a child.
I was thinking about it this morning, how I will be happy when it actually happens. Then I stopped myself! Right then I started listing all the many things that I have in my life that I am grateful for.
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ANiceChianti
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Re: is it just me or....
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
I did. Every month except for the month we did IVF. Then I couldn't wait for it to start so I could get my cycle going.
I cried every month when AF showed for 4 Years. It was terrible.
Now I just ***** and moan because it's such a waste to even get AF when I know I can't get PG! Looking forward to the early menopause I'm supposed to be getting lol
^ This ^
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