| Posted By |
Message |
sosurprised
LIF Toddler
Member since 10/06 393 total posts
Name:
|
x
x
Message edited 10/14/2006 6:50:33 PM.
|
Posted 10/14/06 12:49 PM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
lilacwine
only love...
Member since 5/05 2034 total posts
Name:
<3
|
Re: The joy of TTC has been taken away!
|
| Posted 10/14/06 1:24 PM |
| |
|
pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
Member since 9/05 32436 total posts
Name:
Stephanie
|
Re: The joy of TTC has been taken away!
I think you should stand by your sister and support her unconditionally...JMHO
ETS: I am very sorry for your loss 
Message edited 10/14/2006 1:30:49 PM.
|
| Posted 10/14/06 1:24 PM |
| |
|
DRMom
Two in Blue
Member since 5/05 20223 total posts
Name:
Melissa
|
Re: The joy of TTC has been taken away!
I don't see why her decisions have to do with yours. I have suffered m/c too(more than 1) I know how hard it can be but don't change your own course because of yoru sister. If she wants to have her baby than you should support her-maybe offer to help her out as long as she stays in school, etc. GL
|
| Posted 10/14/06 1:58 PM |
| |
|
Nik09
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 1982 total posts
Name:
Nikole
|
Re: The joy of TTC has been taken away!
I'm so sorry about your loss - I can not imagine the sadness you and your DH are feeling right now.
Your sister really needs you right now. My sister also got pregnant young, she didn't have a real job or an education but she's doing well now and married to the father of the baby. The baby is a joy and we love her to death. We were scared for her but if anything it made her grow up quick.
|
| Posted 10/14/06 2:06 PM |
| |
|
sosurprised
LIF Toddler
Member since 10/06 393 total posts
Name:
|
Re: The joy of TTC has been taken away!
Just to clarify,
My sister lied to me for 6 months about this. So, it is hard to support someone who never told you they needed your support to begin with.
Finally I got to speak to her, she wasn't scared or nervous or looking for support. She basically was laughing, as if it was a joke. When I asked her what her plans were she basically said...I don't know...I will figure it out.
I offered to go get her, to bring her to my home so she doesn't have to be with her boyfriends family and she refused. She is immature, and has no idea what she is getting into. I think in her mind this might be "fun".
So, yes, it changes my course of action. I am too freakin depressed to try for a baby right now. I am also too worried that I will have her on my doorstep with her baby in a few short months.
I love her more than anything, I always have...but this is just sad to me.
Message edited 10/14/2006 6:02:27 PM.
|
| Posted 10/14/06 6:02 PM |
| |
|
Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
|
Re: x
mama...i totally hear ya...
and i totally understand how you are feeling..
FM ME
|
| Posted 10/14/06 9:40 PM |
| |
|
rose825
Best Friends
Member since 6/05 10228 total posts
Name:
|
Re: x
your smart to make sure you are in the right frame of mind to TTC
|
| Posted 10/14/06 9:53 PM |
| |
|
