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Message edited 11/5/2006 10:55:24 AM.

Posted 6/16/06 6:11 PM
 
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

From time to time I will talk to one of my exes... . online only though. I really don't have much to say to him that would constitute a phone call other than just bs'ing with him online. I guess if your DH is ok with it, and you aren't taking it any further, there really isn't anything wrong with keeping in touch.
Everyone's situation is different.

Posted 6/16/06 6:25 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

I don't think it's weird in your circumstance. one of my friends still talks to her ex husband, they're both re-married with their own respective kids.

I however do NOT! None of my previous relationships ended amicably. I can't even imagine still talking to them Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/06 6:35 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

If it's ok with you and your DH, then it's fine. There's nothing wrong with it.

Do you enjoy talking to him? It seems like you're sort of iffy about talking to him even though DH says it's ok.

Posted 6/16/06 6:52 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

I dont. A few years ago my ex sent me flowers and asked me to go to dinner...I declined. My DH (BF at the time) said to go, but I think it was just a good ofense for him. I can honestly say I have no desire to go. I would not appreciate him going either. And that is just my own jealous reasons. Not that he would do anything, but from what I heard she was a scank and I would never trust her.

Posted 6/16/06 6:59 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

If it works for you and your DH great.

I guess I'm just more old school. I don't talk to any of my exes and DH doesn't talk to his ex-wife. We wish them all well but we don't need to share our lives with them.

Posted 6/16/06 6:59 PM
 

IGLover
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH

If it works for you and your DH great.

I guess I'm just more old school. I don't talk to any of my exes and DH doesn't talk to his ex-wife. We wish them all well but we don't need to share our lives with them.



Amen!

Posted 6/16/06 7:14 PM
 

Palebride
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

I don't see anything wrong with it.

I'm still very close with one of my ex boyfriends...he and his wife came to our wedding, in fact.

Posted 6/16/06 7:21 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Phone Calls from Ex-Boyfriends?

Oh, and I just wanted to add.... I dated for a LONG TIME Chat Icon before I met DH... some guys one date, others a year... JMO, but anytime the relationship continues it is really, truthfully, because one of the two still has feelings and wants to continue it. The person who has feelings might not even be 100% in touch with this fact.

I had to explain this to DH after his divorce became final. He knew his ex-wife for 11 years but they had no kids so.... after all they went through and all of the c r a p she did, why would he want to talk to her?

It might have sounded biotchy but I said to him, straight up, you are chosing a life with me and we are getting married, you can't have it both ways as it wouldn't be fair to me. I asked him to view it from my pov and he agreed. Actually, everyone in his family and friends were telling him that long before me.

Posted 6/16/06 7:35 PM
 
 

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