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1 year today

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smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

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me

1 year today

My FIL passed 1 year ago today.

DH took the day off. I did not remember him telling me so I asked him why he did. He was very evasive and finally after me being irritated that he was not answering, He told me it was the anniversary of his death. I guess I should have guessed. I am also very forgetful with the baby and everything. Sometimes I don't even know what day it is. DH never takes days-off to pay the bills and go grocery shopping. Really! BUT he never told me that he took off for that reason.

How can I approach this?

What is the thing to do or say in such sad day?


Posted 8/29/07 9:43 AM
 
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nylisa
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MaMa

Re: 1 year today

You just need to be there for him today.

Posted 8/29/07 10:05 AM
 

Chrisnamy
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Amy

Re: 1 year today

Let him do what ever he wants to do! He will let you know if he wants to talk.

if you do get him talking....you can always telling a nice story about something that you loved about his Dad.
and that you miss his Dad very much also.

Posted 8/29/07 10:11 AM
 

anjerandunder
Positive thoughts worked!!!

Member since 6/06

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Name:
J

Re: 1 year today

just give him some space.

Posted 8/29/07 11:45 AM
 

when
Maybe this time?

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Re: 1 year today

Just be there for him.

Posted 8/30/07 11:51 PM
 
 

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