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1st Xmas Without My Mom

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nylisa
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1st Xmas Without My Mom

I miss my mom a lot especially now. This is the 1st Xmas without her. I just wanted to get my feelings down in the place where people understand what I am going through. I know that people are trying to be helpful but a lot of people keep saying that they know what I am going through but they have no clue.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Here are some pics of my mom. I MISS YOU MOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

my mom, me & my MIL at my Bridal Shower in June 2004
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Pic of me & my parents from my RD in Sept 2004
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Pics of my mom from my wedding in Sept 2004
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my momm & my sister at my sister's baby shower Jan 2005
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My mom with my sister when she was in the hospital having my niece in Feb 2005
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my mom with her 1st grandchild
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her at my niece's christening
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her a month before she passed away playing the snow with my niece
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Posted 12/21/06 2:18 PM
 
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

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Posted 12/21/06 2:36 PM
 

nylisa
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Thanks Antonina

Posted 12/21/06 2:37 PM
 

DonnaJoe708
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Posted 12/21/06 2:40 PM
 

conigs25
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

What beautiful pictures and memories of your mom Chat Icon

I hope that time allows this to become easier on you Chat Icon

Posted 12/21/06 8:02 PM
 

Diane
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Im so sorry...I know how you feel, this will be my first Xmas without my mom too and miss her so muchChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/21/06 9:02 PM
 

anjerandunder
Positive thoughts worked!!!

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J

Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

I'm sorry for your loss..i do know how you are feeling and believe me it suc***..just know that she's with you always!

Posted 12/21/06 9:37 PM
 

nylisa
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Thanks everyone for the beautiful words and support. I know this weekend is going to be hard but I will do the best I can to celebrate Xms especially for my DS since it is his 1st Xmas.

Posted 12/22/06 8:42 AM
 

LBG30
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Such nice pictures!!! I am not going to say it gets easier next year because it doesn't. This is my 2nd x-mas without my dad and it sux!!! I miss him so much :(
Hang in there-remember all the good times you and your mom had togetherChat Icon

Posted 12/22/06 9:46 AM
 

Christine
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

I am so sorry Lisa. I am glad you feel comfortable sharing with us - we are here for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/22/06 10:08 AM
 

twobabies
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I know how you feel. i lost my mom almost 12 years ago and i stil miss her every christmas like it was the first one without her. the best advice i can give you is to celebrate the merriest you can. thats what your mom would have wanted. and i know mine would have also.

Posted 12/22/06 2:06 PM
 

Beth
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

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this is my 3rd- at least your Mom saw you get married and met your baby

she is watching over you guys right now!

I wish I could say it gets a little easier- Chat Icon

I get to meet my dad's new GF this christmas

Message edited 12/22/2006 4:20:12 PM.

Posted 12/22/06 4:19 PM
 

nylisa
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

She saw me get married but she never saw my son or nephew. She only saw my niece.

Thanks everyone for all your support.

Posted 12/22/06 4:24 PM
 

Beth
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Posted by nylisa

She saw me get married but she never saw my son or nephew. She only saw my niece.

Thanks everyone for all your support.



sorry- I assumed the first grand child was yours- I am so sorry you Mom never met your son- Chat Icon

Posted 12/22/06 4:41 PM
 

nylisa
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by nylisa

She saw me get married but she never saw my son or nephew. She only saw my niece.

Thanks everyone for all your support.



sorry- I assumed the first grand child was yours- I am so sorry you Mom never met your son- Chat Icon


That is no problem.

Posted 12/22/06 4:43 PM
 

neenie

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Posted 12/23/06 2:24 PM
 

Jenhos
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Big hugs Lisa Chat Icon

Posted 12/29/06 11:23 AM
 

dpli
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Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

I haven't been on much in the last week, so I am just seeing this now, Lisa. I hope you made it through OK. It was my 10th without my mom or dad and while there is still an emptiness there, it has gotten easier for me.
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Posted 12/29/06 4:31 PM
 

nylisa
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MaMa

Re: 1st Xmas Without My Mom

Posted by dpli

I haven't been on much in the last week, so I am just seeing this now, Lisa. I hope you made it through OK. It was my 10th without my mom or dad and while there is still an emptiness there, it has gotten easier for me.
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Thanks. It was hard but we got through it.

Posted 1/2/07 8:53 AM
 
 

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