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PrincessVonTrockel
Trophy Wife in Training
Member since 11/09 2953 total posts
Name: Natalie
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2 year mark!
It been exactly 2 years since I married my DH and today more than ever everyone asked
"So where are the babies?"
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Posted 8/2/11 12:48 AM |
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baghag
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Re: 2 year mark!
Happy Anniversary!
Tell them to go kick rocks.
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Posted 8/2/11 7:33 AM |
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Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!
Member since 5/05 22334 total posts
Name: Professional Aunts No Kids
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Re: 2 year mark!
Happy Anniversary!
Enjoy you childfree life as long as you want it!
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Posted 8/2/11 8:06 AM |
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caper24
LIF Infant
Member since 11/09 64 total posts
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Re: 2 year mark!
Nat, I just hit 2 years exactly one week before you. I am 7/25/09.
I feel TERRIBLE pressure by EVERYONE to have a baby. It is crazy. Even my patients at my office question me. It is really taking its toll on me. What makes matters worse, is I am 43, so everyone reminds me how my clock is ticking, or it's "now or never" Just when I thought it could not get any worse, someone said to me yesterday "you know your husband is only 31 and he may change his mind in 5 years about wanting kids and then what?" "You could lose him if you don't give him a child" UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
DH and I are on the same page. We don't want kids. I know he is 12 years younger, and he is fully aware of my age and that my child bearing years are just about over. I really was hurt by that comment yesterday and was in a bad mood all day, but didn't share it with him.
Message edited 8/2/2011 12:40:35 PM.
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Posted 8/2/11 12:39 PM |
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caper24
LIF Infant
Member since 11/09 64 total posts
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Re: 2 year mark!
Posted by PrincessVonTrockel
It been exactly 2 years since I married my DH and today more than ever everyone asked
"So where are the babies?"
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY NAT!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted 8/2/11 12:39 PM |
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hazeleyes33
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 13060 total posts
Name: Ginger
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Re: 2 year mark!
Happy Anniversary!!
We didn't have our 1st child until we were married 5 years (by choice) so we heard it all the time--
Message edited 8/2/2011 2:01:35 PM.
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Posted 8/2/11 2:01 PM |
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mrsh2010
To travel is to live.
Member since 7/09 1679 total posts
Name: Celia
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Re: 2 year mark!
Happy anniversary!!!
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Posted 8/3/11 1:16 PM |
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mrsh2010
To travel is to live.
Member since 7/09 1679 total posts
Name: Celia
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Re: 2 year mark!
Posted by caper24
Nat, I just hit 2 years exactly one week before you. I am 7/25/09.
I feel TERRIBLE pressure by EVERYONE to have a baby. It is crazy. Even my patients at my office question me. It is really taking its toll on me. What makes matters worse, is I am 43, so everyone reminds me how my clock is ticking, or it's "now or never" Just when I thought it could not get any worse, someone said to me yesterday "you know your husband is only 31 and he may change his mind in 5 years about wanting kids and then what?" "You could lose him if you don't give him a child" UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
DH and I are on the same page. We don't want kids. I know he is 12 years younger, and he is fully aware of my age and that my child bearing years are just about over. I really was hurt by that comment yesterday and was in a bad mood all day, but didn't share it with him.
Holy Cow!! What is wrong with people? I am so sorry that they said that to you
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Posted 8/3/11 1:17 PM |
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PrincessVonTrockel
Trophy Wife in Training
Member since 11/09 2953 total posts
Name: Natalie
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Re: 2 year mark!
Posted by caper24
Nat, I just hit 2 years exactly one week before you. I am 7/25/09.
I feel TERRIBLE pressure by EVERYONE to have a baby. It is crazy. Even my patients at my office question me. It is really taking its toll on me. What makes matters worse, is I am 43, so everyone reminds me how my clock is ticking, or it's "now or never" Just when I thought it could not get any worse, someone said to me yesterday "you know your husband is only 31 and he may change his mind in 5 years about wanting kids and then what?" "You could lose him if you don't give him a child" UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
DH and I are on the same page. We don't want kids. I know he is 12 years younger, and he is fully aware of my age and that my child bearing years are just about over. I really was hurt by that comment yesterday and was in a bad mood all day, but didn't share it with him.
WHAT!?!!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I cannot believe some people.
In the words of Stefanie Tanner "HOW RUDE!!!!"
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Posted 8/3/11 10:34 PM |
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PrincessVonTrockel
Trophy Wife in Training
Member since 11/09 2953 total posts
Name: Natalie
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Re: 2 year mark!
and Thanks Ladies!
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Posted 8/3/11 10:34 PM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
Member since 5/05 15287 total posts
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Re: 2 year mark!
Posted by caper24
Nat, I just hit 2 years exactly one week before you. I am 7/25/09.
I feel TERRIBLE pressure by EVERYONE to have a baby. It is crazy. Even my patients at my office question me. It is really taking its toll on me. What makes matters worse, is I am 43, so everyone reminds me how my clock is ticking, or it's "now or never" Just when I thought it could not get any worse, someone said to me yesterday "you know your husband is only 31 and he may change his mind in 5 years about wanting kids and then what?" "You could lose him if you don't give him a child" UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
DH and I are on the same page. We don't want kids. I know he is 12 years younger, and he is fully aware of my age and that my child bearing years are just about over. I really was hurt by that comment yesterday and was in a bad mood all day, but didn't share it with him.
Wow...that was so mean.
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Posted 8/4/11 10:31 AM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: 2 year mark!
Posted by PrincessVonTrockel
It been exactly 2 years since I married my DH and today more than ever everyone asked
"So where are the babies?"
Happy anniversary!!
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Posted 8/4/11 10:31 AM |
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Jackie24
~We Did it~
Member since 7/06 6718 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: 2 year mark!
Happy anniversary!!!!
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Posted 8/13/11 7:10 PM |
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MrsPJB2007
MBA at your service!
Member since 7/06 12020 total posts
Name: MJ
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Re: 2 year mark!
Happy Anniversary! I'm sorry that someone made such insensitive remarks about your marriage. That is straight rude and positively AWFUL.
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Posted 8/13/11 10:27 PM |
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HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.
Member since 10/06 15979 total posts
Name: BahBahBlackJeep
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Re: 2 year mark!
Posted by caper24
Just when I thought it could not get any worse, someone said to me yesterday "you know your husband is only 31 and he may change his mind in 5 years about wanting kids and then what?" "You could lose him if you don't give him a child"
Holy shyt that's a horrible thing to say to someone! What is wrong with people??
Oh and happy anniversary to the OP!
Message edited 8/17/2011 1:44:00 PM.
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Posted 8/17/11 1:15 PM |
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