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butterfly22
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Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Mine has a schoolmate who calls about EVERYTHING even at like 9am on a saturday....***??!!! I trust him, but even his other classmates and his roommate see it. He knows how I feel & said something to her, but she still continures to call.
Anyone faces this, and if so, how do you not let it bother you?
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AnnBrunoXO
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
I think it would continue to bother me.
I don't see a reason why another girl (classmate or not) should be calling my husband at 9 am on a saturday or at other inappropriate times. It's just not right and either she's nuts or he's nuts for answering to her.
It would bug the heck out of me - I would tell DH that and ultimately if it continued I think I would have to pick up the phone and speak to her myself and tell her to back off and stop calling my DH about irrelevant things. There is one thing about calling at a normal hour about a project they are working on but calling at early or later than usual times is just not appropriate and fishy.
Message edited 8/8/2005 7:09:28 PM.
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| Posted 8/8/05 7:08 PM |
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AJsMommy122
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
I had a female neighbor that was also MARRIED and flirted with DH like he was the last man on earth 
It was sad really and he would do his best to avoid her or ignore her but she was really persistant.
Finally one day he went out to the car to get something and she saw him and ran out after him and was leaning on OUR truck talking to him.
I grabbed my son went outside and told her off as nicely as possible.
She definitly got the "hint" b/c she wouldn't even look at either one of us after that.
Thank g-d they moved away!!!   
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| Posted 8/8/05 8:06 PM |
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Marybeth222
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
My ex-husband had a female co-worker that used to call my house. I trusted him that they were just friends. It turns out that there were also rumors at his job about he and this girl and they turned out to be true. (Hence, the ex-husband)
I'd talk to your husband and let him know that you don't appreciate another woman calling the house.
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| Posted 8/9/05 7:44 AM |
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KaRiSsA
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
DH has a girl that works w/ him that got pregnant from one of their co-workers that is married w/ 3 kids!!!  Thank goodness she didn't have her eye on my hubby.  The guy left their job and went somewhere else to work. This girl (22 years old) is now left w/ a baby from a married man who's wife doesn't know yet!
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| Posted 8/9/05 8:57 AM |
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leighla
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Next time she called at 9 am on a Saturday I would make sure I answered the phone and sweetly say "Can you please not call this early, we like to cuddle in the mornings and read the paper in bed."
You can go bolder if you want  .
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:20 AM |
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dld4e
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Posted by leighla
Next time she called at 9 am on a Saturday I would make sure I answered the phone and sweetly say "Can you please not call this early, we like to cuddle in the mornings and read the paper in bed."
You can go bolder if you want .
ditto this....
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:41 AM |
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Posted by dld4e
Posted by leighla
Next time she called at 9 am on a Saturday I would make sure I answered the phone and sweetly say "Can you please not call this early, we like to cuddle in the mornings and read the paper in bed."
You can go bolder if you want .
ditto this....
ditto again - I would not have that.
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:54 AM |
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Donna
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Maybe DH should just stop taking her calls and she'll get the hint. Most phones now have caller ID
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| Posted 8/9/05 10:46 AM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
thank for the tips. he said he made it clear...so if it happends I am going to give him the option of (1) letting ME answer the phone...OR (2) STOP PICKING UP HER CALL! A smart man will choose option 2
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| Posted 8/9/05 2:27 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Posted by AJsMommy122
I had a female neighbor that was also MARRIED and flirted with DH like he was the last man on earth
It was sad really and he would do his best to avoid her or ignore her but she was really persistant.
Finally one day he went out to the car to get something and she saw him and ran out after him and was leaning on OUR truck talking to him.
I grabbed my son went outside and told her off as nicely as possible.
She definitly got the "hint" b/c she wouldn't even look at either one of us after that.
Thank g-d they moved away!!!
OMG!! I would have shot her!!!
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| Posted 8/9/05 2:38 PM |
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NoochieP
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Posted by leighla
Next time she called at 9 am on a Saturday I would make sure I answered the phone and sweetly say "Can you please not call this early, we like to cuddle in the mornings and read the paper in bed."
You can go bolder if you want .
I like this. 
I was once at my DH's office Christmas party (then he was my BF), and we were dancing. This girl had the NERVE to grab my DH's hand, spin him away from me, and start dancing with him! (She was a big flirt, and had been sleeping with another co-worker before this). He spun back to me before I could do anything but stand there in shock for a second, so I never actually said anything. But I SCREAMED about her on the way home. DH stayed clear of her until she quit a few months later. Lucky her, otherwise, she SO would have heard it from me the next time I saw her.
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| Posted 8/9/05 5:44 PM |
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karacg
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
I think you are right to take a position on this, and act on it. My EX and my best friend got very close, he was helpful during her seperation from her DH (ex's best friend)...well I found out later they were sleeping together and had been for a while.
I don't trust anyone anymore.
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| Posted 8/10/05 2:32 PM |
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dpli
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Posted by AnnBrunoXO
I don't see a reason why another girl (classmate or not) should be calling my husband at 9 am on a saturday or at other inappropriate times. It's just not right and either she's nuts or he's nuts for answering to her.
This is one of the reasons we got caller ID
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| Posted 8/10/05 2:37 PM |
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CkGm
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Message edited 8/13/2005 1:23:06 AM.
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| Posted 8/13/05 1:22 AM |
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CkGm
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Posted by karacg
I think you are right to take a position on this, and act on it. My EX and my best friend got very close, he was helpful during her seperation from her DH (ex's best friend)...well I found out later they were sleeping together and had been for a while.
I don't trust anyone anymore.
 I wouldn't trust anyone anymore either. Not that I ever did.
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| Posted 8/13/05 1:23 AM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Yes, he DID have a co-worker who was inappropriate, however, a small chit chat between her and I at the company Christmas party did away with that
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| Posted 8/14/05 11:39 PM |
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skew
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Re: Does your SO have a co-worker/opposite sex who is 'innapproriate' with their relations?
Posted by karacg
I think you are right to take a position on this, and act on it. My EX and my best friend got very close, he was helpful during her seperation from her DH (ex's best friend)...well I found out later they were sleeping together and had been for a while.
I don't trust anyone anymore.
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