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tjspidur1
LIF Infant
Member since 10/05 339 total posts
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Trish
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i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
My older sister has a 3 year old and 8 mo. old. She and her DH were in the debating stage of having #3. Needless to say she got preg on an oopps. However, she m/c about 2 weeks ago. She held off on telling me b/c of everthing with me. I feel terrible - this weird mix of emotions - mad b/c of the oops, sad b/c i lost a niece/nephew, angry b/c they weren't trying and have been blessed with 2 little cuties, and sad b/c of the pain i can see in my sister's eyes and heart. I feel like such a brat....
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Posted 7/19/06 10:03 PM  |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
What you are feeling is entirely normal.
While I was at the RE this morning I noticed they have a flyer out on the desk that said, "Infertility is a life crisis".
I think that is very important to remember. It's one of the few dreams we have in life that we seemingly have absolutely no control over
We can go back to school, change jobs, move, diet and workout, etc. but we can only do so much ourselves when it comes to infertility.
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| Posted 7/19/06 10:16 PM |
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rose825
Best Friends
Member since 6/05 10228 total posts
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
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| Posted 7/19/06 10:20 PM |
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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
Member since 5/05 17076 total posts
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Kara®
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
Trish it just isn't and never will be fair....
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| Posted 7/19/06 10:23 PM |
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juju
Welcome to the World!
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
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| Posted 7/19/06 10:28 PM |
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chris
LIF Adult
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
thats very true
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| Posted 7/19/06 11:46 PM |
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Phyl
R.I.P. Sweet Mia ♥
Member since 5/06 28918 total posts
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The Mystical Azzhorse! ™
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
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| Posted 7/20/06 12:21 AM |
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prinses777
LIF Infant
Member since 5/06 122 total posts
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renee
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
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| Posted 7/20/06 12:22 AM |
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krashnburn
I am Batman!
Member since 5/05 4093 total posts
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I'm Batman, I tell you!
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Re: i need to vent/cry/be angry/be sad a little
You're right to feel all those things! It doesn't make you a brat--it makes you human. It takes time to work through all those thoughts and feelings.
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| Posted 7/20/06 7:27 AM |
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