| Posted By |
Message |
| Pages: [1] 2 |
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
What would you do if your sex life was lacking after just having a baby and caught DH on the computer pleasuring himself to some ladies? Then he reveals he has been doing it for years practically every day?
Would ya be pi$$ed?
|
Posted 8/26/05 10:49 PM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
Name:
MrsERod™®
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
 HELLLL YEAH MOFO!!!!!!!!!!!! 
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:50 PM |
| |
|
dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
Name:
Donna
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
for years every day.....yes I would feel weird that I never knew about it.....A one time thing..Im open, I dont really care, but every day is a LOT
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:50 PM |
| |
|
Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
u8h.....YEA
DUH..............
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:50 PM |
| |
|
Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
Name:
Tania
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
wow, I would be shocked and mad but at least it's better than him having an affair
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:51 PM |
| |
|
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
OK so last week she came over here all upset and I validated her feelings but now her DH knows I know and he told her he feels weird around me...would you feel weird around him?
I have to go to their babys christening soon and dont want things to be awkward
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:52 PM |
| |
|
MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
Name:
MrsERod™®
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Aliasmom
wow, I would be shocked and mad but at least it's better than him having an affair
i would be hurt too...but it is a form of betrayal? no? sort of? 
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:52 PM |
| |
|
MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
Name:
MrsERod™®
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
OK so last week she came over here all upset and I validated her feelings but now her DH knows I know and he told her he feels weird around me...would you feel weird around him?
I have to go to their babys christening soon and dont want things to be awkward
would totally feel weird around him! 
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:53 PM |
| |
|
Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
Name:
Tania
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by Aliasmom
wow, I would be shocked and mad but at least it's better than him having an affair
i would be hurt too...but it is a form of betrayal? no? sort of?
yeah but it's only fantasy he is not actually beign with no one physically.
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:53 PM |
| |
|
dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
Name:
Donna
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
OK so last week she came over here all upset and I validated her feelings but now her DH knows I know and he told her he feels weird around me...would you feel weird around him?
I have to go to their babys christening soon and dont want things to be awkward
My sister found out years ago when she was like less then 2 years married( and she was only 20 at the time) that her husband used the computer and cable and telephone for this a LOT , and she was very very freaked out. I tried to calm her down about it, but it was WEIRD around my BIL after that for a while...he knew we all knew...I guess I just started thinking he always had sex on his brain all the time....it didnt stop being weird for a few years...
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:54 PM |
| |
|
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
So then another question how much is too much...is there a limit to a "normal" amount of pleasuring oneself?
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:54 PM |
| |
|
Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
OK so last week she came over here all upset and I validated her feelings but now her DH knows I know and he told her he feels weird around me...would you feel weird around him?
I have to go to their babys christening soon and dont want things to be awkward
no i wouldn't feel weird around him....but i would think he would feel weird around me..
GROOOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:54 PM |
| |
|
neenie
Member since 5/05 22351 total posts
Name:
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
to me, that is a betrayal. and a lie.
if i were him, i wouldnt worry so much about what other people think of me, but what my Wife thought of me
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:55 PM |
| |
|
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Redhead
Posted by Moehick
OK so last week she came over here all upset and I validated her feelings but now her DH knows I know and he told her he feels weird around me...would you feel weird around him?
I have to go to their babys christening soon and dont want things to be awkward
no i wouldn't feel weird around him....but i would think he would feel weird around me..
GROOOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I know I don't want to have to shake his hand or anything 
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:55 PM |
| |
|
dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
Name:
Donna
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
So then another question how much is too much...is there a limit to a "normal" amount of pleasuring oneself?
with all the added "tools" is what would make me feel weirder....he can do it in the shower every day I dont care, but with a computer or TV or phone..thats too much for me....Even a magazine is ok , but if it were EVERY day, thats too much for me
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:55 PM |
| |
|
Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
So then another question how much is too much...is there a limit to a "normal" amount of pleasuring oneself?
i don't think you can put a number to it...
but anything that makes a DW uncomfortable should be talked about
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:56 PM |
| |
|
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Well the wife is pi$$ed that he does it at all....which is a bit excessive the other way
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:56 PM |
| |
|
neenie
Member since 5/05 22351 total posts
Name:
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
i dont care about him 'pleasuring himself'... and its one thing if its jsut a porn video.. btu when theres a live person on the other end of it.. Big Problem in my eyes
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:56 PM |
| |
|
Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
Well the wife is pi$$ed that he does it at all....which is a bit excessive the other way
is she ****** he is doing the big M or while thinking of other women?
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:57 PM |
| |
|
dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
Name:
Donna
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
Well the wife is pi$$ed that he does it at all....which is a bit excessive the other way
that is silly..I think its human nature for most men, and I think "upset over it ALL" is a little uptight
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:57 PM |
| |
|
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
She is pi$$ed about both
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:58 PM |
| |
|
Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
She is pi$$ed about both
well i wouldn't mind the big M but i would be ****** if it was while he was talking with people on the internet!!!
there is a difference!
IMO
|
| Posted 8/26/05 10:59 PM |
| |
|
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Another layer to the problem...years ago when they were dating (they have been together since age 17) she discovered that he was going to strip clubs a lot with guys from work (worked in big accounting firm in city and all the guys did this) well he would lie about it and even blacked out charges on the CC.
So she has had trouble with him looking at any woman
|
| Posted 8/26/05 11:00 PM |
| |
|
Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Redhead
Posted by Moehick
She is pi$$ed about both
well i wouldn't mind the big M but i would be ****** if it was while he was talking with people on the internet!!!
there is a difference!
IMO
Not talking with people....just looking at pics
|
| Posted 8/26/05 11:00 PM |
| |
|
neenie
Member since 5/05 22351 total posts
Name:
|
Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
Another layer to the problem...years ago when they were dating (they have been together since age 17) she discovered that he was going to strip clubs a lot with guys from work (worked in big accounting firm in city and all the guys did this) well he would lie about it and even blacked out charges on the CC.
So she has had trouble with him looking at any woman
i definitely think its an issue. Not b/c he's gone to a strip club, or b/c he's M'd to porn.... but if its really excessive, and its hurting her, and he's hiding it... theres a problem there
|
| Posted 8/26/05 11:02 PM |
| |
|
| Pages: [1] 2 |
