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My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

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LIMOMx2
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My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

She said she really doesn't mind.

Would you let her? I feel like he is my responsibility and no one else should stay up with him but then again I am exhaustedChat Icon

Posted 6/16/06 7:54 AM
 
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yankinmanc
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

I would take it. Go on. She wouldn't offer if she didn't want to do it!!

Sometimes its hard to take something when someone offers it to you, but you can't be a good mommy if you don't get enough sleep.

Do it for me. I don't get offers like that being across the ocean from my mom...so take it and think of me!!!

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Posted 6/16/06 7:56 AM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

Posted by racheeeee

I would take it. Go on. She wouldn't offer if she didn't want to do it!!

Sometimes its hard to take something when someone offers it to you, but you can't be a good mommy if you don't get enough sleep.

Do it for me. I don't get offers like that being across the ocean from my mom...so take it and think of me!!!

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How can I tell her no now?Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 6/16/2006 7:57:51 AM.

Posted 6/16/06 7:57 AM
 

yankinmanc
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

Posted by 5ofClubs

Posted by racheeeee

I would take it. Go on. She wouldn't offer if she didn't want to do it!!

Sometimes its hard to take something when someone offers it to you, but you can't be a good mommy if you don't get enough sleep.

Do it for me. I don't get offers like that being across the ocean from my mom...so take it and think of me!!!

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Good Girl!

Posted 6/16/06 8:02 AM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

TAKE THE HELP!!!! That's what she's there for and if she can't handle it, you'll know! Get some rest and you'll all be happier!

Posted 6/16/06 8:39 AM
 

ckdk
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

I know you feel bad, I would feel that way too but ultimately if my mom offered, I would probably take it...at least for a few hours of sleep, it's worth it!

Posted 6/16/06 9:13 AM
 

steph4777
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

In the beginning, I didn't take anyone up on offers to help. But I soon wised up because I was starting to feel burned out. So my advice...TAKE THE HELP!!!! and get some Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/06 9:14 AM
 

twobabies
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

take the help when its offered!!! i learned that right away, LOL. you have to be able to rest also. accept the help, especially from your mom, they love to do things for the grandbabiesChat Icon

Posted 6/16/06 9:17 AM
 

paulandles912
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

I agree -- take her help!! I wish I had your mom when my Andrew was a newborn!

Message edited 6/16/2006 9:44:47 AM.

Posted 6/16/06 9:37 AM
 

MrsJ
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

Please take her up on it, you beed to rest, its so importand. Accept the help from her, you'll be so glad you did.

Posted 6/16/06 9:52 AM
 

Samlove

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Shari

Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

Posted by 5ofClubs

Posted by racheeeee

I would take it. Go on. She wouldn't offer if she didn't want to do it!!

Sometimes its hard to take something when someone offers it to you, but you can't be a good mommy if you don't get enough sleep.

Do it for me. I don't get offers like that being across the ocean from my mom...so take it and think of me!!!

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Take the break . My mom flew in from Florida for a week to give me a break Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/06 5:14 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: My mother offered to stay up with Andrew tonight but I feel bad...

Definitely take the break. I refused the help that was offered to me in the beginning and mentally I paid for it dearly. I was completely spent and burnt out.

Posted 6/16/06 5:19 PM
 
 

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