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How do you POLITELY tell people ...

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justme1
Proud SAHM

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jodi

Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

I never reach out to rub anyones belly but I do LOVE when ppl rub mine.
Never bothered me. I mean its my shirt they are touching.. nobody has ever lifted up my shirt

Posted 3/10/06 1:27 PM
 
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dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..

Member since 1/06

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Name:
Dawn

Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

people rub my belly all of the time. I dont like it but at the same time - dont have the heart to tell them no. my mom does it all of the time - which is ok. but girls at work thjat Im not even close with do it too! where are you girls finding these great tees??? I think I need one so people stop touching!!

Posted 3/10/06 9:47 PM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

4206 total posts

Name:
Lissette

Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

Ugh, this sometimes bothers me, too, especially when I hardly know the person, BUT I think it's worse when a MALE rubs my belly.

I have this idiot in my job that is always constantly checking women out (still checks me out even in my 'fatness'!), and constantly takes advantage of touching my belly. It REALLY pisses me off because I think he's just trying to 'cop a feel'! I told him that I don't want him touching my belly because males shouldn't be touching me period, and he hasn't since.

Posted 3/11/06 10:14 AM
 

Chatham-Chick
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Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

I find this completely rude...stranger, friends or family!!!!

I work with my mom in the same facility and she was dumbfounded at how many women asked to: 1. see my belly (which requires me to lift up my shirt) and 2. rub it. She couldn't get over it, especially since I don't even really have a belly yet!

I don't like people touching me period, let alone when I'm pregnant and the hormones are raging.

Posted 3/11/06 10:31 AM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Lissette

Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

Posted by Chatham-Chick
I work with my mom in the same facility and she was dumbfounded at how many women asked to: 1. see my belly (which requires me to lift up my shirt)

Hey, I've even had people just walk right up to me and pull up my shirt without asking! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/06 10:35 AM
 

aidamarie
My Precious Angel

Member since 9/05

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Name:
Aidamarie

Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

People do this to me all the time, yesterday was the worst. It was my last day of work and all the patients wanted to say goodbye and they all felt the need to rub my belly. i was ok with it somewhat. I just got mad when the doorman did it too. i rubbed his back and said hows your baby doing today. He looked at me like i was on drugs or something.

Posted 3/11/06 10:42 AM
 

Chatham-Chick
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Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

Posted by Lichi

Posted by Chatham-Chick
I work with my mom in the same facility and she was dumbfounded at how many women asked to: 1. see my belly (which requires me to lift up my shirt)

Hey, I've even had people just walk right up to me and pull up my shirt without asking! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




I might deck someone for that!!!


I've already wacked a few hands and jokingly said "No molesting the baby." But they got the hint. Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/06 10:42 AM
 

wowcoulditbe
wow, pic is already 1 yr old!!

Member since 1/06

6689 total posts

Name:
D

Re: How do you POLITELY tell people ...

Posted by DebG

Posted by Shellyesq

start touching theirs Chat Icon
My friend was telling me about this T-shirt "I'm not the Buddha, don't rub the belly" But I haven't been able to find it anywhere.



I WANT that.
It hasn't started for me yet but I have to tell you I DREAD this



this is the whole reason i keep telling dh we should just wait to tell everyone...i don't want people touching me and feeling up my tummy.....Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/06 1:17 PM
 
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