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Redhead
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Jennifer
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Friend Sit
So i am thinking of getting in touch with an old friend that, although usually selfish and self centered, i do miss....
which way would you contact someone after you loose touch?
Email?
Call?
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Posted 3/23/06 6:10 PM  |
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Marcie
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Re: Friend Sit
I would probably call 
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:10 PM |
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dandr10199
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Re: Friend Sit
I would email.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:11 PM |
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MrsERod
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Re: Friend Sit
call
no, don't call
ok, call.
(i'm just being a selfish friend, and want to keep you all to myself... )
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:14 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:15 PM |
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capricorn75
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Re: Friend Sit
I would email.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:16 PM |
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Marcie
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Re: Friend Sit
Posted by MrsERod
call
no, don't call
ok, call.
(i'm just being a selfish friend, and want to keep you all to myself... )
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:19 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Friend Sit
Posted by MrsERod
call
no, don't call
ok, call.
(i'm just being a selfish friend, and want to keep you all to myself... )
I would email.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:21 PM |
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MissingLI
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Re: Friend Sit
I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:22 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Friend Sit
Posted by MissingLI
I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.
And also - will you be addressing reasons why you haven't spoken? I feel like in an email you can really get your thoughts out without interruption. JMO.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:24 PM |
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Jenziba
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Re: Friend Sit
I would email first.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:41 PM |
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mrswask
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Re: Friend Sit
Email - i just did this with an old friend.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:42 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit
Posted by Diana1215
Posted by MissingLI
I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.
And also - will you be addressing reasons why you haven't spoken? I feel like in an email you can really get your thoughts out without interruption. JMO.
true..but honestly we both know why...
so rehashing it won't do anything
I know this person is a selfish person who has drama in her life 24-7
BUT i do miss her in a way
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:47 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Friend Sit
It's a tough call - but you know your friend and your relationship best!
Good luck!!!!
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:57 PM |
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DebG
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Re: Friend Sit
I would call.
It will be nice to hear her voice.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:58 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit
Posted by Diana1215
It's a tough call - but you know your friend and your relationship best!
Good luck!!!!
sad to say...i think the more i think about it...
the more i might not
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:58 PM |
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peabody
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Re: Friend Sit
Posted by Redhead
Posted by Diana1215
Posted by MissingLI
I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.
And also - will you be addressing reasons why you haven't spoken? I feel like in an email you can really get your thoughts out without interruption. JMO.
true..but honestly we both know why...
so rehashing it won't do anything
I know this person is a selfish person who has drama in her life 24-7
BUT i do miss her in a way
I know what you mean Jen.
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| Posted 3/23/06 6:59 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit
drives ya crazy right tara
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| Posted 3/23/06 7:00 PM |
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peabody
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Re: Friend Sit
Posted by Redhead
drives ya crazy right tara
OH Yeah!!
It's weird, Phil and I keep running into her parents, we saw them at Target last Sunday. She has been emailing me, left a message on our home phone and called Phil on his cell but didn't leave a message.
Part of me wants to respond her, I miss her.
I definitely know the annoying feeling of tug a war.
Message edited 3/23/2006 7:03:13 PM.
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| Posted 3/23/06 7:02 PM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Friend Sit
I would start with E-mailing first and see what happens i mean she can still be that selfish person and you dont want to really start a friendship up again because they you will say why did i get involved with this person again. I am sorry i dont want to be the negative person but i knew a person that i did not speak to because of immaturity and selfishness and i did give her a nother chance and it backfired i just dont want to see that happening to you jenn!
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| Posted 3/23/06 7:16 PM |
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Bri
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Re: Friend Sit
e-mail
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| Posted 3/23/06 7:17 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Friend Sit
I would base it on how you used to communicate the most. For example: If you mostly called each other, then call, if you mostly emailed, then email.
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| Posted 3/23/06 7:18 PM |
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dpli
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Re: Friend Sit
I would probably email.
Think about what it will really mean to have this person in your life again. I have rekindled two friendships that I wish I had left alone and with one, it was tough to get out of it the second time around.
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