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Redhead
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Friend Sit

So i am thinking of getting in touch with an old friend that, although usually selfish and self centered, i do miss....

which way would you contact someone after you loose touch?
Email?
Call?

Posted 3/23/06 6:10 PM
 
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Marcie
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Re: Friend Sit

I would probably call Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/06 6:10 PM
 

dandr10199
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Re: Friend Sit

I would email.

Posted 3/23/06 6:11 PM
 

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Re: Friend Sit

call

no, don't call

ok, call.

(i'm just being a selfish friend, and want to keep you all to myself...Chat Icon )


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Posted 3/23/06 6:14 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit

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Posted 3/23/06 6:15 PM
 

capricorn75
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Re: Friend Sit

I would email.

Posted 3/23/06 6:16 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: Friend Sit

Posted by MrsERod

call

no, don't call

ok, call.

(i'm just being a selfish friend, and want to keep you all to myself...Chat Icon )


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Posted 3/23/06 6:19 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Friend Sit

Posted by MrsERod

call

no, don't call

ok, call.

(i'm just being a selfish friend, and want to keep you all to myself...Chat Icon )


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I would email.

Posted 3/23/06 6:21 PM
 

MissingLI
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Re: Friend Sit

I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.

Posted 3/23/06 6:22 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Friend Sit

Posted by MissingLI

I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.



And also - will you be addressing reasons why you haven't spoken? I feel like in an email you can really get your thoughts out without interruption. JMO.

Posted 3/23/06 6:24 PM
 

Jenziba
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Re: Friend Sit

I would email first.

Posted 3/23/06 6:41 PM
 

mrswask
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Re: Friend Sit

Email - i just did this with an old friend.

Posted 3/23/06 6:42 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit

Posted by Diana1215

Posted by MissingLI

I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.



And also - will you be addressing reasons why you haven't spoken? I feel like in an email you can really get your thoughts out without interruption. JMO.


true..but honestly we both know why...

so rehashing it won't do anything

I know this person is a selfish person who has drama in her life 24-7
BUT i do miss her in a way

Posted 3/23/06 6:47 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Friend Sit

It's a tough call - but you know your friend and your relationship best!

Good luck!!!!

Posted 3/23/06 6:57 PM
 

DebG
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Re: Friend Sit

I would call.
It will be nice to hear her voice.

Posted 3/23/06 6:58 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit

Posted by Diana1215

It's a tough call - but you know your friend and your relationship best!

Good luck!!!!


sad to say...i think the more i think about it...
the more i might notChat Icon

Posted 3/23/06 6:58 PM
 

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Re: Friend Sit

Posted by Redhead

Posted by Diana1215

Posted by MissingLI

I would email as well. It takes the 'on the spot' feeling out of the whole thing.



And also - will you be addressing reasons why you haven't spoken? I feel like in an email you can really get your thoughts out without interruption. JMO.


true..but honestly we both know why...

so rehashing it won't do anything

I know this person is a selfish person who has drama in her life 24-7
BUT i do miss her in a way



I know what you mean Jen.

Posted 3/23/06 6:59 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Friend Sit

drives ya crazy right taraChat Icon

Posted 3/23/06 7:00 PM
 

peabody
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Re: Friend Sit

Posted by Redhead

drives ya crazy right taraChat Icon



OH Yeah!!

It's weird, Phil and I keep running into her parents, we saw them at Target last Sunday. She has been emailing me, left a message on our home phone and called Phil on his cell but didn't leave a message.

Part of me wants to respond her, I miss her.

I definitely know the annoying feeling of tug a war.

Message edited 3/23/2006 7:03:13 PM.

Posted 3/23/06 7:02 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: Friend Sit

I would start with E-mailing first and see what happens i mean she can still be that selfish person and you dont want to really start a friendship up again because they you will say why did i get involved with this person again. I am sorry i dont want to be the negative person but i knew a person that i did not speak to because of immaturity and selfishness and i did give her a nother chance and it backfired i just dont want to see that happening to you jenn!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/23/06 7:16 PM
 

Bri
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Re: Friend Sit

e-mail

Posted 3/23/06 7:17 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Friend Sit

I would base it on how you used to communicate the most. For example: If you mostly called each other, then call, if you mostly emailed, then email.

Posted 3/23/06 7:18 PM
 

dpli
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Re: Friend Sit

I would probably email.

Think about what it will really mean to have this person in your life again. I have rekindled two friendships that I wish I had left alone and with one, it was tough to get out of it the second time around.

Posted 3/23/06 8:45 PM
 
 

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