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Did this happen to anyone else....

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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love

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Chrissy

Did this happen to anyone else....

Now that I'm married my mother is constantly calling and bothering me to go visit/call this one and that one....

It was never like this in the past...EVER. Does getting married mean "She's an adult now...go do Adult things?"

ie: My great-aunt's brother in law (twice removed) had surgery done and she wants me to call him and see how he is? I have never spoken to this man in my life!

the following week:

your grandmother is in the hospital - go visit her...I can't mom it's in Syosset (I'm in Bklyn) and by the time I get out of work visiting hours are over...I sent flowers and called...isn't that enough?

Why is she always on my case now?

Posted 8/15/06 1:53 PM
 
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LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon My mom is the same way about calling this one & that one. I just say ok..and never call! Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 1:54 PM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

my mom no, my mil yes. she is always on dh's case to see this one or that one.

Posted 8/15/06 1:56 PM
 

chikita315
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M-lo

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Actually, not my mom so much, but MIL. She would call me and say "Did you sent a TY card to so and so" like a day after she found out they gave us a gift. But, she's a major PITA all the time, after we got married it just got worse.

She never has us over for dinner, but then she'll say, "you guys never come over". Hello???

Posted 8/15/06 1:58 PM
 

MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love

Member since 4/06

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Name:
Chrissy

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Posted by chikita315

Actually, not my mom so much, but MIL. She would call me and say "Did you sent a TY card to so and so" like a day after she found out they gave us a gift. But, she's a major PITA all the time, after we got married it just got worse.

She never has us over for dinner, but then she'll say, "you guys never come over". Hello???



DH constantly complains about how his parents have yet to come over and visit us since we've been married! I just laugh and say "thank God." Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 2:01 PM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

we had my il's over twice since we moved in. once the day of the move, when my mil's idea of helping was to iron the dust ruffle and make the bed. and when she saw me all she could say was "its cute."

second time was before my dh's grandparents left for caroline, they wanted to see the apt., they invited themselves over.

but what bothers me more is that my mil expects us to go eat by here every friday for pizza and at least one other night a week. hell no!! i can see where its going to be a problem...

Posted 8/15/06 2:07 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Missy

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

OH MY GOSH!!!!!!! SAME THING HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!

so funny! ive been in CT for 3 years now- and havent lived at home since i left for college. Why, all of a sudden, am i getting the guit trip?

great uncle so and so is NOT going to notice if I send him a carr or not for his 84th birthday


LOL Chrsitine that is soooooooooooooooooooooooooootrue what you posted- im laughing right now

Posted 8/15/06 2:10 PM
 

MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love

Member since 4/06

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Name:
Chrissy

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Posted by preshy7

OH MY GOSH!!!!!!! SAME THING HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!

so funny! ive been in CT for 3 years now- and havent lived at home since i left for college. Why, all of a sudden, am i getting the guit trip?

great uncle so and so is NOT going to notice if I send him a carr or not for his 84th birthday


LOL Chrsitine that is soooooooooooooooooooooooooootrue what you posted- im laughing right now



That's exactly it - a GUILT TRIP...out of control...think it's bad if we change our numbers and don't tell anyone? Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 2:12 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!

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Missy

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Posted by ChrissynRicky

Posted by preshy7

OH MY GOSH!!!!!!! SAME THING HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!

so funny! ive been in CT for 3 years now- and havent lived at home since i left for college. Why, all of a sudden, am i getting the guit trip?

great uncle so and so is NOT going to notice if I send him a carr or not for his 84th birthday


LOL Chrsitine that is soooooooooooooooooooooooooootrue what you posted- im laughing right now



That's exactly it - a GUILT TRIP...out of control...think it's bad if we change our numbers and don't tell anyone? Chat Icon



and people wonder why im never reachable AOH- of course not! thats when the guilt trip calls come in!

i also get ..."you know, your sister cries ot me every day that you are notl living on LI" meanwhile, i know thats not true

or

"its too bad you have that job...in CT"

is it? why cant you be proud of my job in CT that pays me triple what i would make on LI????

im so sick of it

Posted 8/15/06 2:14 PM
 

MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love

Member since 4/06

6005 total posts

Name:
Chrissy

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Posted by preshy7

and people wonder why im never reachable AOH- of course not! thats when the guilt trip calls come in!

i also get ..."you know, your sister cries ot me every day that you are notl living on LI" meanwhile, i know thats not true

or

"its too bad you have that job...in CT"

is it? why cant you be proud of my job in CT that pays me triple what i would make on LI????

im so sick of it



My family, including Ricky had a very hard time with me working in CT - and I was commuting. I feell your pain, and honestly, I support you 10000000%...they have no idea what it's like in the industry!

Posted 8/15/06 2:20 PM
 

dom-n-nic
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
nicole

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

i have noticed since i am married
that myparents call me to call ,send a card get a gift for this one and that one lol

Posted 8/15/06 2:44 PM
 

MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love

Member since 4/06

6005 total posts

Name:
Chrissy

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Posted by dom-n-nic

i have noticed since i am married
that myparents call me to call ,send a card get a gift for this one and that one lol



as if without them we'd be walking around barefoot in the streets...

Posted 8/15/06 2:47 PM
 

bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??

Member since 6/05

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Name:
Gail

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

they live in florida. but i do call them. sometimes they said i just spoke u. they say i could call whenever i want

Posted 8/15/06 7:11 PM
 

beautyq115
New Year!

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Name:
Me

Re: Did this happen to anyone else....

Actually I am calling her...I am a little bored since I am not working

Posted 8/15/06 7:35 PM
 
 

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