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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Genna
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People are SOOO rude!!
Two people today commented on my weight. One person told me that my arms got bigger and another woman said "Genna, you look like you gained weight" and I said "Well, First of all I am pg and second of all its really rude to make comments about people's weight". I dont look pg at all...just fat...I am still in my regular clothes but I look bloated. Its bad enough that I feel crappy about the way that I look, I dont need people making comments.  
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Posted 7/13/06 4:04 PM  |
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
 Good for you for responding like that!!!!! 
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:05 PM |
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CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(
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Christine
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Good for you! I had a woman who I hadn't seen in a while ask me yesterday, very seriously-" is that outfit telling us you are pregnant or did you just get fat?" ummm.... thankfully I am pregnant- what if I just got fat????
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:11 PM |
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Dragonfly75
I love Hypnobabies
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
That *****! I went on vacation with my husband's family and I was shocked at the comments I recieved about my weight:
"Hi chubby"
"Try not to get too puffy"
"Aren't you big for 5 months?"
I was so insulted and shocked that people could be so rude, especially when I am growing a baby, not just fat for the fun of it. 
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:11 PM |
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jenny
L O V E
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Good for you. People can be so insensitive.
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:13 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
People can be so insensitive and rude. Im glad you answered back! Good for you~!
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:14 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
I feel for you Genna. If I had a dollar for everytime someone says "wow, you're getting big" I'd be able to put my kid through college already.
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:17 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
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Genna
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Posted by pmpkn087
I feel for you Genna. If I had a dollar for everytime someone says "wow, you're getting big" I'd be able to put my kid through college already.
no joke...I cant stand it!!
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:18 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Good for you for responding! So sorry though, what is wrong with people! It doesn't stop after the baby either. I still get, especially from the IL's, you are still cushy, and wider, but you are almost back. Ya Thanks!
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:19 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Great answer, girl!
I seriously don't know where people get off commenting about a pregnant ladies weight , saying "you look chubby" and crap like that... um hello, we are PREGNANT - of COURSE we are going to gain weight! And would you say that to someone who was NOT pregnant - I dont think so
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:19 PM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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D
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Glad you said something back.
This book Im reading about twins has some GREAT comebacks when they ask you how you conceived them.
For example, one woman asked her if her twins were from fertility drugs, she said back to the lady..."Do you douche?"...and saying how personnal that question was.
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| Posted 7/13/06 4:20 PM |
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apb17
My guys
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Posted by Diane
Glad you said something back.
This book Im reading about twins has some GREAT comebacks when they ask you how you conceived them.
For example, one woman asked her if her twins were from fertility drugs, she said back to the lady..."Do you douche?"...and saying how personnal that question was.
Hysterical!!!
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| Posted 7/13/06 5:23 PM |
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mommysboy
my beautiful baby is here :-)
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
wow good for you. Can you come and stick up to my family for me lol. I guess im just a wuss i sit there and take all the weight jokes and comments and it just pisses me off inside. Ive only gained 7 pounds with this pregnancy so far and im 18 weeks 5 days and i still get it. wonder what happens when im in my 9th months lol good luck to you and the nasty people with there comments
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| Posted 7/13/06 5:56 PM |
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casey31
Mommy of 3!
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
People can be so annoying. I know its from a friend and it was in good spirits but I am very tired of hearing how my if boobs keep growing they will soon be taking over the world! 
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| Posted 7/13/06 5:59 PM |
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
Member since 10/05 11561 total posts
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Posted by casey31
People can be so annoying. I know its from a friend and it was in good spirits but I am very tired of hearing how my if boobs keep growing they will soon be taking over the world!
Ariella - if you decide to BF, they will take over the world!!!
Sorry to make a joke, I know how you feel.
I grew 4 bra sizes during my pregnancy and up one more size when I first started nursing. I went from a 34B to a 38DD. Now I am a 36DD after 2 months of BF'ing.  I told my DH when I bought the 38DD bra that I offically had "porn star boobs" and he said "i'm not complaining" 
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| Posted 7/13/06 6:05 PM |
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casey31
Mommy of 3!
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Posted by dandr10199
Posted by casey31
People can be so annoying. I know its from a friend and it was in good spirits but I am very tired of hearing how my if boobs keep growing they will soon be taking over the world!
Ariella - if you decide to BF, they will take over the world!!!
Sorry to make a joke, I know how you feel.
I grew 4 bra sizes during my pregnancy and up one more size when I first started nursing. I went from a 34B to a 38DD. Now I am a 36DD after 2 months of BF'ing. I told my DH when I bought the 38DD bra that I offically had "porn star boobs" and he said "i'm not complaining"
Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone! I was a 34C- I am in a 38DD now but getting upset because I bought it a week ago and it hurts already... I just lurked on parenting and saw the post about nursing bras-I didn't know they make them with underwire. I have to get yet ANOTHER bra this weekend.
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| Posted 7/13/06 6:14 PM |
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
Member since 10/05 11561 total posts
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Dina
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Posted by casey31
Posted by dandr10199
Posted by casey31
People can be so annoying. I know its from a friend and it was in good spirits but I am very tired of hearing how my if boobs keep growing they will soon be taking over the world!
Ariella - if you decide to BF, they will take over the world!!!
Sorry to make a joke, I know how you feel.
I grew 4 bra sizes during my pregnancy and up one more size when I first started nursing. I went from a 34B to a 38DD. Now I am a 36DD after 2 months of BF'ing. I told my DH when I bought the 38DD bra that I offically had "porn star boobs" and he said "i'm not complaining"
Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone! I was a 34C- I am in a 38DD now but getting upset because I bought it a week ago and it hurts already... I just lurked on parenting and saw the post about nursing bras-I didn't know they make them with underwire. I have to get yet ANOTHER bra this weekend.
Yep, that is how it went for me. I have 10 bras in 4 different sizes.
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Kelly529
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/06 825 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
Posted by Diane
Glad you said something back.
This book Im reading about twins has some GREAT comebacks when they ask you how you conceived them.
For example, one woman asked her if her twins were from fertility drugs, she said back to the lady..."Do you douche?"...and saying how personnal that question was.
That's great. I should tell my friend that. My girl friend had to have IVF and she hates when people ask her if it "natural"
So Rude!!!!
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LIgrl
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
I totally agree with this post! Sometimes I think maybe I am sensitive but sometimes I just don't understand people. Didn't they learn, if they don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all!...lol
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ana6178
Praying for a miracle!
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Re: People are SOOO rude!!
People stink! Glad you stuck up for yourself! 
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