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Grrr...I hate my friends FH

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05mommy09
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Grrr...I hate my friends FH

I just feel so bad for her- she's got so much going on, and so many "issues" to begin with....and he is just such a jerk!

She keeps going back and forth with calling off this wedding, and I so badly wanna say- KEEP IT OFF!

For instance...

My parents gave me their dining room table-which is in excellent condition, and bigger than the one we have now (which is also in pretty good condition...)

My friend currently has no kitchen table, so when my parents told me they were giving me this- I offered my table to my friend for free- She says great...

I explain- that I have no spare room to store it here, and Im not sure when my dad would be dropping the table off this week, since he had to wait for my brother to come home and help him...

Well- sure enough- todays the day... I call to tell her as soon as I know...1st- he starts arguing that its not gonna fit in the truck (which is a crock of sh!t, since my dad brought over this table in something smaller than their truck)

After going back and forth with her FH forever- she calls to tell me the reason they arent coming to get it- is because he wants to go out drinking with his friends, and dosent feel like coming to get it tonight!

I was floored, you are low on $$$$, and here a free table (even if its temp.) and your FH dosent "feel" like coming to get....

So I offer my DH to load everything for her... all she wouldve had to do was drive.... but he needs their vehicle to go out Chat Icon

While Im on the phone with her... my DH happens to let out the comment "that he's a selfish POS" and my friend hung up on me....

DH then felt bad and offered to borrow his moms truck and drive it to her, and set it up.... but I told him to forget it... I feel bad for her- but I cant save her forever- and why should my DH leave his family just so her FH could go get drunk with his friends..

Sorry- Im prob rambling... but he really bugs me!





I feel sooo bad for this baby!

Message edited 8/17/2006 7:43:12 PM.

Posted 8/17/06 7:17 PM
 
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randella
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Re: Grrr...I hate my friends FH

this guy sounds like a total a$$hole. Maybe your friend will see the light-- I cannot imagine she does not get upset by his behavior.

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Message edited 8/17/2006 7:29:14 PM.

Posted 8/17/06 7:23 PM
 

05mommy09
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Re: Grrr...I hate my friends FH

Posted by randella

this guy sounds like a total a$$hole. Maybe your friend will see the light-- I cannot imagine she does not get upset by his behavior.

edited for typos



Honestly- Im sure she gets upset... but shes so scared of being alone (IMO) that she accepts it!

Posted 8/17/06 7:43 PM
 

Wendy1220
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Re: Grrr...I hate my friends FH

Posted by Princessmaris

Posted by randella

this guy sounds like a total a$$hole. Maybe your friend will see the light-- I cannot imagine she does not get upset by his behavior.

edited for typos



Honestly- Im sure she gets upset... but shes so scared of being alone (IMO) that she accepts it!



Totally frustrating situation for you particularly when you're trying to help her. He sounds like a real winner and its sad that she's settling for this out of fear of being alone. Too many women do this and it makes me crazy Chat Icon

Posted 8/17/06 7:48 PM
 

Bri
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Re: Grrr...I hate my friends FH

Your poor friend . . . . .

Posted 8/17/06 7:55 PM
 

dpli
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Re: Grrr...I hate my friends FH

You shouldn't have to do all the work when you are doing someone a favor. I hope she comes to her senses soon. Chat Icon

Posted 8/17/06 8:40 PM
 
 

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