for thos ehwo had m/c bit then got pregnat again i have a question..

I mentioned to my Dh that if our first pregnacy had worked out i would be only a few week away form giving birth and he was kind of surprised how fast time went but at the same time not very moved by the fact that we could be a few weeks away form being parents. i understand that i shoudl focus on this pregnancy and i am but am i wrong for thinking about hwat cooyuld have been in a few short weeks? I guess its more like a guy to want to just forget it like it ddint happen. am i overly sensitibe to teh fact i had a m/c or what? be honest

Re: for thos ehwo had m/c bit then got pregnat again i have a question..

no, not at all. When June 3rd comes around I will be thinking that my baby would have been born. A loss is a loss, and it is ok to be sad, and dont feel guilty for thinking of him/her.
Now you can concentrate on your new little miracle about to happen

Re: for thos ehwo had m/c bit then got pregnat again i have a question..

A loss is loss, and you did lose a child. If I hadn't m/c'd in July, my due date was 3/18. I am going to say a little prayer that am, and if tears come they come. I am a little sad around this time, but I am still excited and blessed to have my baby girl coming 5/5

Re: for thos ehwo had m/c bit then got pregnat again i have a question..

I m/c in late july/early aug. so my due date would be coming up anyday now. I keep thinking about that this baby could be born on the day I had my D&C.

My DH likes to think about the future and believes our m/c was meant to be, that is wasn't our time then.

Message edited 3/12/2006 2:05:31 PM.

Re: for thos ehwo had m/c bit then got pregnat again i have a question..

I was sad the day I was due in August. A loss is a loss and it's ok to admit that and mourn it.