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major Dh vent......

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04bride
I'm a big sister!!!

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Noel

major Dh vent......

ok sorry this is a little long..

all of sudden on saturday i started to get a terrible pian in my foot by my pinky and 4th toe. Not the actually toes but right underneathe( on the top part of my foot) where you bend them.So Dh is like oh its becasue your feet are swollen and you are wearing flip flops.

. ok well i have to wear flip flops b/c my feet are swollen and i think i broke someting. He swears up and down you didnt break anyting and on and on.. So this goes on from saturday afternnon all through last night. I kept saying if it was from being swollen why would only two toes hurt not all ten and only on my left foot....
sooo long story short i go to the dr today and sure enough i have a nureoma( a growth). Its not something they remove its treated with a cortizone shot which i obvioulsy cant get right now. I have to ice it a bunch of time a day and stay off it as much as possible. Then after the babys born i can get the shot but i cant BF so i wil lhave to pump that milk and throw it away.
She said double check with my drs but she thinks its about 8-12 hours that i cant feed her until the cortizone leaves my body.

I am not even upset so much that i have this thing in my foot. its annoying but there are a million things that are worse than this that could happen. but i am so upset with Dh its like he didnt bleive me and was bruishing me off. I finally called him this mornign and i said i am goign to the dr and then i started cryign saying you dont belive me and so on. He said i blieve you that you are in pain but i think its from the swelling and being pegnat.he said go to the dr i never told you not to go go and prove me wriong(he said it like all aragont like you wil lnot be prviong me wriong)
well when i called him back tro tell him i had a growth in my foot i said see i proved you wrong he said no you didnt you said they were broken and they arent so you havent proved me wrong.. OMG i want to killhim i swearChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/14/2006 12:43:05 PM.

Posted 8/14/06 12:42 PM
 
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michele31
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Michele

Re: major Dh vent......

Hugs!!!! I am so sorry you are in pain! let me know if you need any help with pumping for those few hours.

Posted 8/14/06 12:44 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: major Dh vent......

Noel, I hope you feel better soon Chat Icon

And I'm sorry that your DH isn't being more supportive of what you are going through Chat Icon

Posted 8/14/06 12:54 PM
 

nferrandi
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Member since 10/05

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Nicole

Re: major Dh vent......

I'm sorry you're in so much pain, but I kind of have to laugh. Your situation sounds just like something that would happen with DH and me. DH thinks I'm always overexagerating. I know how frustrating it can be. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/14/06 12:59 PM
 

04bride
I'm a big sister!!!

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Noel

Re: major Dh vent......

thanks girls.. he better come home with a differnt attitude or else....

we have our 3rd session lamaze tonigt he better give me a nice back massage during teh relaxation time. Chat Icon

Posted 8/14/06 12:59 PM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

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Stephanie

Re: major Dh vent......

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Men Chat Icon If they don't feel it, then it's not bad. Chat Icon

Posted 8/14/06 1:03 PM
 

stickydust
Now a mommy of 2!!!

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Re: major Dh vent......

I am sorry thay this is happening Chat Icon
I can, however, completely relate. My Dh doesn't ever think anything is a big deal - his leg would have to be literally falling off before HE would go to the doctor. I think it is just their nature...

Posted 8/14/06 1:12 PM
 

SuzyQ
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Susan

Re: major Dh vent......

Posted by pmpkn087

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Exactly, but then they are the BIGGEST babies when they have so much as a sniffle! Chat Icon

I hope your foot feels better soon. Get lots of rest!!

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Posted 8/14/06 1:30 PM
 

04bride
I'm a big sister!!!

Member since 5/05

6707 total posts

Name:
Noel

Re: major Dh vent......

thanks girls. unfortunately its not going to get better on its own so i can just saty off it which for me is so hard since i am alwasy on the run

Message edited 8/14/2006 7:05:41 PM.

Posted 8/14/06 7:05 PM
 

wowcoulditbe
wow, pic is already 1 yr old!!

Member since 1/06

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Name:
D

Re: major Dh vent......

Chat Icon Chat Icon hope you had a nice lamaze class - and that you can take it easy on your feet!!

Posted 8/14/06 11:13 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

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Christine

Re: major Dh vent......

Posted by pmpkn087

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Men Chat Icon If they don't feel it, then it's not bad. Chat Icon



ExactlyChat Icon

I am so sorry you are in pain...Chat Icon

Posted 8/14/06 11:18 PM
 

beachgirl13
Mommy to 3 boys!

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Re: major Dh vent......

men!! hope you are feeling better.

Posted 8/14/06 11:24 PM
 
 

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