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I just quit my job!!!

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heidla
Me and the guys

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Heidi

I just quit my job!!!

In Feb. I accepted a position as a singing bartender in a piano bar that was just opening. I was a little torn because it was in direct competition with the piano bar I have worked in for 7 yrs. After hours of debate and realizing that I needed to make more money, I accepted the position, but kept my 2 shifts a week at the first piano bar.

Well, after 4 months I have had it!!!!! I am unhappy and I feel like the owners don't want the place to work. I used to fill in at my old job on a weekend night and walk away with a minimum of $250. Now, on a weekend night ( I work both Fri and Sat there) I am barely breaking $60 a night. After debating all weekend ,asking my boss at piano bar #1 if I could get back on as #1 on the list to cover weekend shifts and being told absolutely, I have just quit piano bar #2. I feel kinda bad because a very dear friend of mine is the one that hired me. I feel like I am disappointing him, but I have to think about myself and my DH's financial situation. I hope that he will understand and still be my friend, but ultimately my happiness is more important. I mean I can fill in every third weekend night and make more money then I was making every night at piano bar #2 and I have more time with my DH (which is scarce).

Sorry for the rant. I am just questioning myself. Plus, the 2 glasses of wine make me a little chatty.

Posted 6/6/05 11:11 PM
 
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Tany
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Tania

Re: I just quit my job!!!

Heidi, you have to do what's best for you and dh. Don't feel bad, anyone else would have done the same.Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/05 11:13 PM
 

heidla
Me and the guys

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Heidi

Re: I just quit my job!!!

Posted by Aliasmom

Heidi, you have to do what's best for you and dh. Don't feel bad, anyone else would have done the same.Chat Icon



Thanks!!! I just feel like I let a friend down. On the other hand, by the time I got home some night I was making $25. That is just ridiculous!! I am not only bartending I am singing.

Thank you again. I need reassurance even though in my heart I know my family comes first.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/05 11:18 PM
 

neenie

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Re: I just quit my job!!!

i know its rough, but you cant always do for other people- especially when Theyre not paying your bills Chat Icon
I think you made the right decision... you have to do whats right for You and DH, the others will be OK, but you DO have to put yourself and your marriage first Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/05 11:29 PM
 

JenniferEver
The Disney Lady

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Jennifer

Re: I just quit my job!!!

I think it sounds like you made the best decision. If you're not happy ina situation, improve the situation. Best of luck

Posted 6/6/05 11:31 PM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

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Kristin

Re: I just quit my job!!!

I'm sure it was tough, but you definately sound like you made the best decision! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/7/05 1:24 AM
 

sunny
Life is good!

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Stephanie

Re: I just quit my job!!!

You made the right choice! Congrats!

Posted 6/7/05 6:59 AM
 

AndreaLMT
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Re: I just quit my job!!!

Sounds like you made a good decision.
Good for you...and lots of luck!!!!Chat Icon

Posted 6/7/05 7:17 AM
 

Tracey
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Tracey - brideinapril

Re: I just quit my job!!!

It sounds to me that you made the best decision, you have to think of yourself in situations like these. It has to be what benefits you and that job was not benefiting you at all!

Posted 6/7/05 8:30 AM
 

dpli
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D

Re: I just quit my job!!!

I think a friend would understand you quitting because you aren't making enough money. It is a valid reason and you are trying to support your self- it doesn't make sense to stay and I think any rational person would see it that way.

Posted 6/7/05 11:26 AM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Lissette

Re: I just quit my job!!!

Posted by sunny
You made the right choice! Congrats!



I think you made the right decision. Your friend will understand.

Posted 6/7/05 11:31 AM
 
 

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