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SIL vent- sorry long...

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CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

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Christine

SIL vent- sorry long...

I have not gotten along with my BIL fiance since we met but I really try to make an effort. On Valentine's day they called asking to come over with their two dogs to our very small condo to spend the evening and I told my DH to tell them no. I have a severe sinus infection and my doctor told me to avoid dust, dander and all pets for the duration. So I call her today to ask them out to dinner and apologize for not being able to have them over since I was so sick and explained why. She basically told me that was rediculous when I told her what the doctor said and that she had only one cold her whole pregnancy. I explained that everyone is different and since I had sinus problems already it was aggreviated by the pregnancy. So basically she believes I blew them off to spend Valentine's day with husband alone(gee- our first as a married couple-). She just gets me so annoyed- with her little comments. No matter how hard I try- I feel as if everything I do makes these people angry or is misunderstood- grrrr.....

Thanks for letting me vent- she just makes me nuts!Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 1:37 PM
 
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Disneygirl
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Name:
D

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

Wow what an inconsiderate b!tch. Sorry you have to deal with that. Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 1:41 PM
 

bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??

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Name:
Gail

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congrats on the pregnancy

Posted 2/16/06 1:58 PM
 

dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!

Member since 10/05

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Name:
Dina

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...



Posted by Disneygirl

Wow what an inconsiderate b!tch. Sorry you have to deal with that. Chat Icon



I agree. I feel bad for your BIL. Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 2:01 PM
 

MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug

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Name:
Kathy

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

Yeah really what a Chat Icon !! I dont blame you at all, you did the right thing. Tell her to get over it!

Posted 2/16/06 2:07 PM
 

LI2VA
Love my life!!

Member since 11/05

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Name:
Melissa

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

Honestly don't try so hard to make them happy. Someone like that will always have comments to make.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 2:09 PM
 

NovemberSue
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/05

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Name:
Susan

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

I think you have every right NOT to have company over even if you were feeling ok. What is wrong with people? I wouldn't let her get to you. Let her see that you aren't bothered by her little remarks and that will bug her even more.Chat Icon
I've also had a bad sinus infection for over two weeks and I know how you are feeling.
I finally went to the dr for antibiotics. I wasn't able to sleep because of it. Feel better and ignore the rude people!

Posted 2/16/06 3:59 PM
 

pharmcat2000
Mom of 2 + 1

Member since 10/05

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Name:
Catherine

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

What would make people think it is okay to invite themselves AND THEIR DOGS to another person's house on Valentine's Day??? She is the one who is ridiculous. Don't let her make you feel bad.

Posted 2/17/06 2:49 AM
 

mable
2 1/2

Member since 12/05

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Name:
kristen

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

wowo screw her..
the way you feel is more important then anything... Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 3:09 AM
 

nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.

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Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

Posted by pharmcat2000

What would make people think it is okay to invite themselves AND THEIR DOGS to another person's house on Valentine's Day??? She is the one who is ridiculous. Don't let her make you feel bad.



I agree 100%. And if you did blow them off - it was still your first Valentine's Day with DH and your last as a couple!

Posted 2/17/06 5:49 AM
 

Shelly
She's 7!!!

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Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by pharmcat2000

What would make people think it is okay to invite themselves AND THEIR DOGS to another person's house on Valentine's Day??? She is the one who is ridiculous. Don't let her make you feel bad.



I agree 100%. And if you did blow them off - it was still your first Valentine's Day with DH and your last as a couple!



I agree 100%. Its nuts. This girl just seems a little to self absorbed!! Chat Icon Your poor BIL. He's going to have to live wiht her

Posted 2/17/06 9:57 AM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

This post seems really stupid now with my appointment yesterday. I agree that I do feel sorry for my BIL though....
Thanks for the support.Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 10:00 AM
 

KangaMom
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Re: SIL vent- sorry long...

How ridiculous she sounds! Chat Icon

Posted 2/18/06 9:05 AM
 
 

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