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A Vent and a Rant

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JennasMom
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A Vent and a Rant

Some of you know that I have had a history of M/C's, I was PG 7 times over 3 years with Jenna being my 7th. My body went through alot between being PG and the fertility drugs. With this being said DH promised that once I got the ok from my OB that I could go to the gym so I could get my body back because it hasn't been mine for 3 years.

Yesterday he proceeds to tell me that I will have to restrict my gym time because he is studying for the FDNY Captain test . Ok I get it, but when you need at least 3 hours of studying a day, are working alot of overtime(him) and have a 12 year old that plays sports up the wazoo, when do I get me time? Every time I make a proposal about when I can go, he always has an objection to it. so needless to say I have not been there yet

I hate to sound like a whiner but I really want to get back in shape, I walk with the baby every day andI try to catch some classes on FIT TV but I feel like he doesn't careChat Icon

Message edited 11/22/2005 8:07:22 AM.

Posted 11/22/05 8:06 AM
 
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Calla
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How frustrating!!!

I'm sure he cares, but is a bit (too) focused on his own goal at the moment.

Any chance you could trade babysitting with a friend???

Posted 11/22/05 8:25 AM
 

KPtoys
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Re: A Vent and a Rant

I hired a PT to come to me just for this very reason!! My DH, when he has the oppertunity to be home, would rather my mom come over or hire a babysitter so he can keep any plans he may have like his plans are more importantChat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/22/2005 8:44:19 AM.

Posted 11/22/05 8:43 AM
 

-Laurie-
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Re: A Vent and a Rant

My gym has free daycare starting at 3 months so I went when Jack was 3 months :)

Posted 11/22/05 10:25 AM
 

Ambersmom
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Re: A Vent and a Rant

Tell me about it Michelle....I haven't seen the inside of the gym for over a year for the very same reason. NO TIME!Chat Icon

Maybe Steve's afraid of being left alone with the baby since she's soo small? Men have a very odd aversion to caring for the tiny tiny infants (well, the big ones too for that matter!Chat Icon )

Message edited 11/22/2005 10:42:22 AM.

Posted 11/22/05 10:41 AM
 
 

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