So upset about coworker invited to shower.

i was not inviting any coworkers. Ecspecially one that i sit with she is older in her late 50's and all she does is talk about people and looks down on them. She is so nosey. well when i was making my list she said am i on it and i said yeah of course because i was taken back. i gave the list of addresses to my sister and said hold off on her i am not sure yet that i want her..I then told her do not send it i do not want her there and she said i am such a pain she is going to kill me. Well I just saw she had buybuy baby up on her computer so I called my other sister and said I think Denise did something I did not want her to do and she said invited _____ to your shower and I said yeah so she confirmed she is invited. I like to keep my personal life seperate from my business life. I know she is only going to see what my boyfriends family is like and to be nosey...i am so upset. I know she will go she is the type that would not miss it fpor anything..ecspecially because i do keep my personal life out of the office even though she will not know anyone there she will go.

Message edited 2/16/2006 11:03:55 AM.

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that s.u.x.

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It really does. My sister does not listen she "thinks" she is nice..she is such a phoney and nosey. When my sister got married i waws SHOCKEd to see her sitting in the church..she had to go check it all out. I was looking forward to my shower..now i feel like crying. Her being there will bother me so much. My friends say I am over reacting but i sit with her in this little office I know how she is. I should have never give my sister the address. I mean just the nerve of her to ask if she is invited gets me mad.

Message edited 2/16/2006 11:21:46 AM.

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Well, it is what it is. You can't uninvite her now. Just focus on everyone who will be there that you wanted there. I am sure your shower will be awesome whether she is there or not.

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I am sorry ur upset, ur shower will still be beautfiul and everyone else u love--and loves you will be there.. try to think that she will see the amazing party that u get, fabulous gifts and how AMAZING this time in ur life is--and if she has something negative to say tune it out--consider the source, im sorry she was invited but try to make the most of it isince she unfortunatly cant be uninivted..

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Thanks girls I know All the people I care about wil be there and that is what matters. I just am PO'ed at my sister right now.

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