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So how to do I tell my boss?

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Juliet
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So how to do I tell my boss?

Okay, I am 13 weeks and wondering how and when I should tell my boss. I started working in the library in November and became a Librarian Trainee this July. I am SO nervous to tell her even though I know that another person got pg shortly after she started as a trainee.

My boss is very nice but I am so afraid that she will be upset with me because she has finally gotten the staff built up to where she wants it.

Any advice on how to break the news?

Posted 8/7/06 6:29 PM
 
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megsmom
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Re: So how to do I tell my boss?

i was really nervous too because the year that passed was my first year teaching.. I went in told the principal.. and he was happy for me.. it wasnt as bad as I thought.. I was dreading it.. especially since he is far from a people person..
Just be honest.. it'll be fine!!Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/06 7:29 PM
 

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Re: So how to do I tell my boss?

Hi Juliet,

I told at 14 weeks, good thing I did bc I started to really bulge shortly thereafter. You don't want to wait too long and have people speculate "is she?" or "isn't she?" and have your boss find out that way...

I just had a one-on-one scheduled and blurted it out! "I am 3 months pregnant!" It was fine once out in the open... If your boss thinks you're quitting the news might come as a relief LOL

Message edited 8/7/2006 7:45:08 PM.

Posted 8/7/06 7:44 PM
 

Charly
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Re: So how to do I tell my boss?

We have biweekly updates so that I can update her on what I'm working on and discuss anything I need some direction on....so I just started by "updating" her on me. I just said I have some really exciting news that I'm 14 weeks pregnant. She was shocked....turns out she was too! I was supposed to "step up" in her absence - oh well maybe next time. Turns out we are due 2 days apart.

Strange huh?!?!

ETA I did bring up the fact that I had intentions of coming back. She didn't seem concerned (maybe she's not)

Good luck!!

Message edited 8/7/2006 9:08:16 PM.

Posted 8/7/06 9:07 PM
 
 

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