I feel like an old frump

I feel very frumpy lately. Like I lost some of the spark I had when I was in my early 20s (I'm 29). Like, I look at my old pics and I was skinny with long hair..and now I am chubby with short hair. I told my coworker I feel like Donna from Judging Amy


I feel very plain. I guess now that I share $ with another person most of the clothes I buy are mix and match rather than cool outfits or "going out" clothes.....

Blah!!!

Re: I feel like an old frump

I feel like that too sometimes.

Re: I feel like an old frump

I feel your pain. I feel like I don't have that pick me up kinda feeling anymore. I am starting to feel old.

Re: I feel like an old frump

I feel that way too sometimes. I try to buy a piece of clothing that is anything but frumpy to pick myself up.

Re: I feel like an old frump

I feel like that all the time and I'm the same age as you.

Re: I feel like an old frump

this is why i stopped counting at 25! it worked wonders!!

i am skinnier than i have ever been,
my hair color is au natural and i am happy! my clothes are not as fabulous as they used to be but i work in a sh!twhole, dh is always out of town and...oh no, now you depressed me.

Re: I feel like an old frump

The only way we can keep ourselves from feeling that way is to try to pretend like you are single. Keep yourself in shape and looking good for yourself. So that even though you are off the market, you can still make heads turn.

I promised myself that just because I was married I wouldn't "let myself go". You have to make yourself that same promise. And go shopping!!!!!