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Very personal... TMI question!

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CaidensMommy
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Very personal... TMI question!

Chat Icon I can't believe I'm posting this, but last night my DH and I did the deed which is hardly ever since all the problems I was having. Well actually I was on top because of nothing else being comfortable. Chat Icon Anyway, we did the deed, but beforehand we were fooling around and I had an "O"... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I can't help but think I hurt the baby because of the "O" you know from contracting and etc., and then from the movement from doing the deed. I can't help but feel guilty because of this. Chat Icon I feel like I hurt the baby, honestly!!! How can that be comfortable for him? Anyone else worry about this? Thanks!

Posted 5/19/06 8:49 AM
 
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maybebaby
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Maureen

Re: Very personal... TMI question!

Believe me, your baby is fine. Doctors say so, pregnancy websites say so...the baby is totally unphased by anything and protected in his/her little world that they are probably sleeping during it all. (Thats what i like to think, lol)

My doctor told me its ridiculous when he hears about couples that refuse to do it during the 9 months out of fear of hurting the baby. Unless you have a medical reason to abstain (bleeding etc) go for it! Be happy! Because I'm sure at the very end of pregnancy and when your little one does arrive, it'll be few and far between for a while

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Posted 5/19/06 8:53 AM
 

pmpkn087
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Re: Very personal... TMI question!

I read somewhere, that babies are not harmed by this and usually find it soothing...the rocking motion of the contracting is relaxing to them.

Posted 5/19/06 9:30 AM
 

Michi
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Re: Very personal... TMI question!

i wouldnt be worried. O's are calming for the entire body, im sure the baby will be fine

Posted 5/19/06 9:41 AM
 

michele31
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Re: Very personal... TMI question!

The baby is fine. There is nothing harmful about what you did.

Posted 5/19/06 9:58 AM
 

CaidensMommy
My 3 Miracles!

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Melissa

Re: Very personal... TMI question!

Thanks everyone! I feel much better! Chat Icon

I also told my DH that I thought it was weird because right before we started fooling around the baby was kicking up a storm! I thought it was weird because he was awake as if he could see something! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 5/19/2006 10:11:35 AM.

Posted 5/19/06 10:11 AM
 

Diane
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Re: Very personal... TMI question!

Posted by pmpkn087

I read somewhere, that babies are not harmed by this and usually find it soothing...the rocking motion of the contracting is relaxing to them.



I read this too

Posted 5/19/06 10:26 AM
 

btrflygrl
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Shana

Re: Very personal... TMI question!

your baby is fine....that happened ALL The time during my PG....it was easier for me to "O" and Alyson is FINE

Posted 5/19/06 10:32 AM
 

DaniMo
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Danielle

Re: Very personal... TMI question!

I was nervous at first too, but then read that baby enjoyed the soothing motions & hormone surge -- i started thinking of it as if baby was on a drug-free 'trip,' just floating around with a big smile on her face.

Rock on, i say! Chat Icon

Posted 5/19/06 10:34 AM
 
 

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