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btrflygrl
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OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Please read this thread from Relationships and scroll down to a post from funnygrl....

That horrible insecurity is now ingrained in my head and heart that I might not know who DH is.....

http://www.lifamilies.com/chat/topic-51633-1.html

Posted 5/19/06 8:07 AM
 
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CAJ
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

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Posted 5/19/06 8:10 AM
 

unknown1
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Momma ... Please YOU know your husband .. you two have a beautiful child together please do not let some loser affect that. Jealousy makes people do sick things PLEASE YOU are beautiful so is your daughter DO NOT let it make you insecure

Posted 5/19/06 8:11 AM
 

CAJ
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

btrflygrl...I am sorry we bashed the poster's comments about your DH and in hindsight...maybe its something you may have wanted to know...Weather its true or not I personally think it should have been done via an FM! and my Heart goes out to you! Chat Icon

Posted 5/19/06 8:14 AM
 

Michi
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Dont let it get to you hun, Im sure its just bs--someone causing trouble.. But I do think that Ron needs to ban this fakie and the real user (if they r actually one) and expose who they are, cause this nonsense is ridiculous

Posted 5/19/06 8:14 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry that you are going through this but I feel that you need to have a talk with your DH about your doubts and insecurities that you now have. I think the truth now lies with him and he needs to let you know everything.Chat Icon

Posted 5/19/06 8:14 AM
 

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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

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Don't freak out sweetie! I am sorry this person posted that.Chat Icon

Message edited 5/19/2006 8:15:53 AM.

Posted 5/19/06 8:15 AM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by BellaPaige

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry that you are going through this but I feel that you need to have a talk with your DH about your doubts and insecurities that you now have. I think the truth now lies with him and he needs to let you know everything.Chat Icon



and if I do with nothing to confront or proof, he'll tell me how stupid message boards are

Posted 5/19/06 8:19 AM
 

KaRiSsA
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by BellaPaige

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry that you are going through this but I feel that you need to have a talk with your DH about your doubts and insecurities that you now have. I think the truth now lies with him and he needs to let you know everything.Chat Icon



and if I do with nothing to confront or proof, he'll tell me how stupid message boards are



Can't you say you got a strange email maybe?

Posted 5/19/06 8:21 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by BellaPaige

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry that you are going through this but I feel that you need to have a talk with your DH about your doubts and insecurities that you now have. I think the truth now lies with him and he needs to let you know everything.Chat Icon



and if I do with nothing to confront or proof, he'll tell me how stupid message boards are



You are absolutely right. It is always good to have proof. How about just asking him questions without attacking him? I do not if this will help because it is such a sticky situation right now.

Message edited 5/19/2006 8:21:55 AM.

Posted 5/19/06 8:21 AM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

WHAT THE....

I just realized....that posters name has his favorite # in her screen name....23 was his # when he played sports. What are the chances of that?

Posted 5/19/06 8:21 AM
 

Michi
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

are u actually thinking this person is telling the truth...in real life do u have ur doubts, this could be some crazy posting just to make you inscure--and ur the target, this could be any1 one of us that the fakie chose

Posted 5/19/06 8:22 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by btrflygrl

WHAT THE....

I just realized....that posters name has his favorite # in her screen name....23 was his # when he played sports. What are the chances of that?




How about sending this poster a FM and see if they will respond to you and maybe you can have a chat with this person to get some more info?

Posted 5/19/06 8:23 AM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by muchinluvmichi

are u actually thinking this person is telling the truth...in real life do u have ur doubts, this could be some crazy posting just to make you inscure--and ur the target, this could be any1 one of us that the fakie chose



I do have that insecurity....

he's been to NY alone a few times (even if for 2-3 days at a time)
his "appetite" is unbelievable now....all of a sudden he wants it everyday.....he was NEVER like that.
I certainly don't look like what I used to

and if they chose me to pick on, WHY???

Posted 5/19/06 8:24 AM
 

lorich
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by btrflygrl

WHAT THE....

I just realized....that posters name has his favorite # in her screen name....23 was his # when he played sports. What are the chances of that?



I seriously cannot imagine what you're going through. My mind would be racing in a million different directions.
You may be reading too much into it...I don't know. I hope and pray it was just a "lucky guess" on her part.
I'm so very sorry someone has to be so incredibly cruel to do this to you. I hope and pray for your marriage, children and heart that this gets resolved ASAP.
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Posted 5/19/06 8:24 AM
 

CAJ
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by btrflygrl

WHAT THE....

I just realized....that posters name has his favorite # in her screen name....23 was his # when he played sports. What are the chances of that?




How about sending this poster a FM and see if they will respond to you and maybe you can have a chat with this person to get some more info?



I think that would be a great idea! The poster was kind enough to give you a heads up (if its true of course)

Posted 5/19/06 8:24 AM
 

Michi
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by muchinluvmichi

are u actually thinking this person is telling the truth...in real life do u have ur doubts, this could be some crazy posting just to make you inscure--and ur the target, this could be any1 one of us that the fakie chose



I do have that insecurity....

he's been to NY alone a few times (even if for 2-3 days at a time)
his "appetite" is unbelievable now....all of a sudden he wants it everyday.....he was NEVER like that.
I certainly don't look like what I used to

and if they chose me to pick on, WHY???



Im not sure what to say, I pray its not true..b/c u dont desereve that, and im royally peeved that any so called person on this board would do sucha thing, as to bring it out in public..true or not BUT dont project ur insecurity into thinking ur DH is doing something when he may not be...u need to talk to him about it, if need be u can say u got a provate email in regards to this and u need to talk to him...

Posted 5/19/06 8:26 AM
 

Heather617
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Try not to worry. If your DH has never given you anything to worry about then don't. Just because he goes away doesn't mean he is cheating. If you trust him, then don't let a post from someone you don't even know bother you!!!

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Posted 5/19/06 8:32 AM
 

jms100303
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Shana, I am so sorry hun. Whether it is true or not I know your stomach must be tied up in knots right now. I also am sure that this is going to eat at you for awhile. Try talking to this 'fakie' as someone suggested. See if you can get more information and then talk to your DH. You won't feel better until you have talked to him about it. Good luck!

I am so sorry you have to go through this. I am sure it is nothing and someone just being cruel. But I know you need piece of mind.

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Posted 5/19/06 8:32 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Oh Shana, this is the last thing you need right now - all I can say is I would take what she says with a HUGE grain of salt! Even if she DOES know your husband, everything she said was so general - it doesn't seem like she knows a damn thing and if I had to guess, I'd say it's either someone who knows you from your past and for some reason or another has something against you, or a jealous ex. I don't care how silly message boards are, and you know this will eat away at you inside and poor DH will have no idea what's tormenting you, so YES, I think it's absolutely necessary that you say something. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/19/06 8:33 AM
 

Eva Luna
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

Shana!! Chat Icon Please don't let any insecurity you have show...this just fuels the loser's actions. You know your husband better than anyone else. If it's something that is truly bothering you then speak to him, openly. I'm sorry that things that you thought were being said in confidence were used against you...that's just so beyond wrong. And I pray for your family!! Chat Icon

Now, Ron, we need to ban someone from this site. IP address and all!! Chat Icon

Posted 5/19/06 8:39 AM
 

Lisa
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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

this is inbelievable!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

How can someone be so cruel??

Posted 5/19/06 8:41 AM
 

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Re: OMG....I am SO freaking out right now....

What that person did was mean and there's little reason to think she has any credibility, IMO.

Posted 5/19/06 8:43 AM
 

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Posted 5/19/06 8:47 AM
 

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Posted 5/19/06 8:49 AM
 
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