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MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!
Member since 5/06 14562 total posts
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Marisa
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Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
w/o a Realtor ?? I am finding these people VERY pushy to the point where I am uncomfortable, they insist on wasting my and DH's time by showing us homes which have/do not have the very few specific things we want/do not want ...(ie: I want a basement, it doesn't matter if YOU don't think it's important, I do - DON'T bring me to a home w/o a basement ........is this SO hard??) ....I'm sure not all realtors are like this, but unfortunately, we have been having a very unpleasant experience. ........
Is it THAT big of a deal for me to just do everything on my own ?? Or am I asking for trouble ?? We're 1st time home buyers so we don't know what we're doing and all of the research in the world isn't going to help when you're dealing w/ someone experienced .......
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june262004
But I love the Snow!
Member since 5/05 15379 total posts
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Kristin
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
Yup... We were working with a realtor who would show us crap and stuff that was out of our price range.
We decided to look on our own and thats how we found our house. We did a search on MLSLI for open houses and found it that way,
HOWEVER I can recomend a Great realtor who isn't pushy!
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| Posted 9/20/06 12:26 PM |
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MegZee
My bunny
Member since 5/06 8777 total posts
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Meaghan
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
its possible. i agree with the pushiness of some of these realtors.
FH's best friend just got his R/E license, so he is our realtor. But if we didnt have a friend, I would do it on my own!
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| Posted 9/20/06 12:28 PM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
We did! We looked on MLSLI & also in Newsday for open houses. We went to as many as we could in a day & that is how we stumbled upon our house!
In the beginning we were working w/an agent but we were shown so much stuff that we "didn't" want.
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| Posted 9/20/06 12:36 PM |
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~Colleen~
my loves...
Member since 5/05 9129 total posts
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guess
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
We did...but it was the house right next door to the one we'd been renting from 
I tried all routes - working with one exclusively, just doing the open house circuit, working with a few different ones at once. Some were nice, some were pushy.....you just have to make a decision right away and whatever you do, do NOT give out your phone number! LOL I only gave people my email address (unless I was going out with them one on one).
Make sure whomever you're working with knows exactly what you do and do not want. Be firm. Don't let anyone waste your time.
Message edited 9/20/2006 12:41:31 PM.
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| Posted 9/20/06 12:40 PM |
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Ang-Rich
Beyond Compare
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
We sold our co-op on our own and found our home on our own. It was such a great process all around but that's because off all of the people involved.
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| Posted 9/20/06 1:06 PM |
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belladi
LIF Adult
Member since 9/06 1011 total posts
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diana
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
We didnt work with a realtor we just went to open houses
I never gave them my correct information so they couldnt call
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| Posted 9/20/06 1:16 PM |
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beachgirl13
Mommy to 3 boys!
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
yes, we weren't really seriously looking, so we didn't have a realtor. We randomly went to an open house, and we ended up making an offer.
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| Posted 9/20/06 1:22 PM |
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Kelly9904
Mommy to 2 amazing little boys
Member since 5/05 9306 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
Message edited 1/30/2009 2:31:59 PM.
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| Posted 9/20/06 1:32 PM |
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kaklesmay
Love my baby boy!
Member since 9/05 1151 total posts
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Kim
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
We did it with realtors and I ended up doing most of the work so ultimately I gave up on them.
We found our home at an open house by the owner and got the house for less than other people had offered w/ a realtor.
If your a good researcher you can definitely do it alone.
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| Posted 9/20/06 1:48 PM |
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Ladybug63
Ohh... baby
Member since 5/06 2527 total posts
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D
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
We looked on our own and we were referred to someone.
He was a nice guy but showed us CRAP!!
It was sooo bad. I mean I was doing 1/2 the work telling him which houses I wanted to look at, printing them out ( I had access to the realtor listings) he was taking me to homes 2&3 towns over that were not even close to what we wanted.
Last straw was when he was unavailable on Sunday to go to open houses w/ us. We went on our own. We met up w/ him later that day and told him about a house we liked and possibly wanted to make an offer on.
He was P.I.S.S.E.D! He was like...well, Did you talk to the realtor??? Did you tell them your names??? Because I didn't go with you that realtor doesn't have to give me commission!!"
I couldn't believe it. It was only week 2 of looking w/ him also.
We ditched him & wound up finding our house on our own.
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| Posted 9/20/06 1:55 PM |
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
Yes, we bought our first co-op without a realtor. We just called the sellers broker ourselves and setup appointments.
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| Posted 9/20/06 1:55 PM |
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MrsA
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
We did, we found the house we bought on mlsli. A friend of mine who is a RE showed us a few houses that she had come across, but that was it.
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| Posted 9/20/06 2:18 PM |
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mommysboy
my beautiful baby is here :-)
Member since 9/05 1136 total posts
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amanda
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
yeah we had a realtor who showed us nothing but stuff out of our price range so one weekend we went on mlsli and found a bunch of houses and set up our own appt to see them and that weekend we bought our house without the realtor and she just happened to find out and called us up screaming at usand we explained that she stunk at her job lol.
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| Posted 9/20/06 2:28 PM |
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MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!
Member since 5/06 14562 total posts
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Marisa
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
Thanks for all of your responses !! It makes me feel SO much better to know I can ditch the realtor and do it on our own !
Now .....on to actually FINDING a house !!
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| Posted 9/20/06 2:46 PM |
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ckone
LIF Adult
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
I do have to say that my friend went to go look at a house and the seller told her $410 and if you go online it says $429900....Interesting. As for realtors, I think it's like finding a good Therapist.
We've seen crap and at the top of our price range. If you tell them you can go no higher than $400 - they show you $440.
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| Posted 9/20/06 3:00 PM |
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Palebride
I am an amazing bakist
Member since 5/05 13673 total posts
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Lori
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
My parents have a friend who is a realtor, so we went with him. We still did some work on our own looking for houses. But ultimately, he did find the house we're in the process of buying. I dont' know if we'd have looked at it if it weren't for him, so I'd say he's worth it!
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| Posted 9/20/06 3:01 PM |
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Mommy2Boys
My Boys!!!!
Member since 6/06 14437 total posts
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C
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
I can recommend an excellent realtor if you would like. She works for ReMax in Merrick. I used her and recommend her all the time. She was wonderful, patient and we only looked at exactly what we wanted and what she knew we could afford. No games!
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| Posted 9/20/06 3:02 PM |
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charon54
My two boys!
Member since 5/05 7279 total posts
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Rebecca
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Re: Anyone Find and Buy their home ....
I loved my realtor, she didn't show us homes out of our price range and we found our home in like 2 weeks. FM me if you want info.
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| Posted 9/20/06 9:10 PM |
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