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dree
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Dree

sex question

How long did you wait to jump in the hay after giving birth ? I'm petrified....did it hurt? I had baby 9 weeks ago. Poor DH is being soooo patient.

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Posted 9/9/05 10:16 AM
 
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stayandjohn
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Stacey

Re: sex question

Once my Dr gave me the OK at my 6 week check up, it was on!

Posted 9/9/05 10:22 AM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: sex question

A couple of days after the 6 week checkup. The Dr joked that my DH had called to say he was home waiting for me. Chat Icon

I had a c/s and it still hurt but I got through it Chat Icon Does anyone know WHY it hurts??

Posted 9/9/05 10:26 AM
 

Sassy2611
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Member since 5/05

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Sarah

Re: sex question

I had a c-section and i was told once the bleeding stopped i could go back to "normal bedroom activities". Bleeding stopped on day 7 and i was back to "normal activities" by day 10.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

My Dh was more scared about it then i was. I have felt great since four days after having Kaylee. My Dr. is amazing.

Posted 9/9/05 10:56 AM
 

CunningOne
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Re: sex question

Posted by Sassy2611

I had a c-section and i was told once the bleeding stopped i could go back to "normal bedroom activities". Bleeding stopped on day 7 and i was back to "normal activities" by day 10.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Me too, we wasted no time Chat Icon I bled very little after my c/s and went for it. It didn't hurt, but it was weird trying to get DH not to lean on my incision Chat Icon (TMI!)

Posted 9/9/05 11:24 AM
 

steph4777
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Stephanie

Re: sex question

I had an episiotomy, so I was terrified. I stopped bleeding maybe after 2.5 weeks, but was still sore down there until about 5 weeks. We resumed activity a few days before my 6 weeks check up.

Posted 9/9/05 1:04 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: sex question

Wow I'm surprised that people were given the okay to go for it earlier. I was told nothing goes "in there" for six weeks!

Posted 9/9/05 1:10 PM
 

iffer042373
5 weeks till I'm a big sister

Member since 5/05

2642 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: sex question

I was given the ok on my 6 week check up and I am not going to lie to you it hurt and after that I waited a few weeks and it still hurt

Posted 9/9/05 1:18 PM
 

Florence
LIF Infant

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Florence

Re: sex question

On my way home from my 6 week check up I stopped at CVS for condoms! DH had the date marked on his calender!

Posted 9/9/05 2:36 PM
 

dree
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

1107 total posts

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Dree

Re: sex question

YIKES! I guess I have been holding out. You all are brave Chat Icon

Well Monday is my 10 year anniversary from our 1st date soooooo I guess I'll give it a whirl. Wish me luck Chat Icon

Posted 9/9/05 2:42 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: sex question

Good luck! Chat Icon

Posted 9/9/05 2:44 PM
 

CaidensMommy
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Member since 5/05

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Melissa

Re: sex question

We didn't do it for at least after the 6 week postpartum checkup. I bled for 6 weeks after my c-section and then a week later I got AF. So it was probably around 9 weeks after.

Posted 9/9/05 2:56 PM
 

ARIELSMOM
Love my Babes

Member since 8/05

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MEREDITH

Re: sex question

YEs it HURT!!! I mad an attempt before my 8 week visit. And what was even more embarressing- the doc could tell...Chat Icon

Posted 9/9/05 3:29 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: sex question

Posted by ARIELSMOM

YEs it HURT!!! I mad an attempt before my 8 week visit. And what was even more embarressing- the doc could tell...Chat Icon



omg how can they tell?? Chat Icon

Posted 9/9/05 5:13 PM
 

-Laurie-
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Re: sex question

Went for my checkup just shy of 5 weeks got the go ahead but was told by the nurse to feel free to lie to Dh about it if I wasen't ready!

Came home from the visits with various methods to make sure Jack didn't get a brother or sister and as stayandjohn put it so nicely.."it was on" and no problems. We didn't want to waste any time since family was coming into town for the christening and Dh was leaving the country...

Posted 9/9/05 5:34 PM
 

Aliking
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

525 total posts

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Allison

Re: sex question

Dr. gave the ok at 6 weeks.. but I was too nervous. I think it was more like 9.

Posted 9/9/05 5:36 PM
 

SoinLove
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Kristin

Re: sex question

Once the doctor gave us the green light, the night of my 6 week appointment. Yes, it HURT, which sucked (almost made it feel like it wasn't worth the wait), but the second time wasn't so bad.

Posted 9/9/05 6:07 PM
 

steph4777
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Stephanie

Re: sex question

I wanted to add that using lube really helps.

Posted 9/9/05 6:09 PM
 

HereWeGoAgain
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

1063 total posts

Name:
a

Re: sex question

I didnt feel back to normal for awhile... at the 6 week check up my hubby was eager.. but we held off a little longer... I was VERY in the mood my entire pregnancy... amazing how its soup to nuts!

G/L!!

Posted 9/9/05 7:25 PM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

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Kristin

Re: sex question

Posted by steph4777

I wanted to add that using lube really helps.



Definitely!

Posted 9/9/05 8:43 PM
 

rose825
Best Friends

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Re: sex question

Posted by ARIELSMOM

YEs it HURT!!! I mad an attempt before my 8 week visit. And what was even more embarressing- the doc could tell...Chat Icon




Chat Icon OMG!!! How????

Posted 9/10/05 10:39 AM
 

waytogo
Balancing act on a highwire

Member since 5/05

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a

Re: sex question

Oh my god i read this at 10 YEARS! Chat Icon

I'm sure there are people that have had that experience too!

Posted by dree

YIKES! I guess I have been holding out. You all are brave Chat Icon

Well Monday is my 10 year anniversary from our 1st date soooooo I guess I'll give it a whirl. Wish me luck Chat Icon

Posted 9/11/05 11:38 AM
 

Boobobunny
Live in the Present

Member since 5/05

3572 total posts

Name:
Dannielle

Re: sex question

we waited a long time...probably about 10 weeks....but we weren't in that sort of mood because our baby was in the hospital....but even after 10 weeks I still felt alot of pressure...I had, had a c-section...thats probably why.

Posted 9/12/05 1:10 PM
 

aliasPook
Blessed x 3

Member since 6/05

2460 total posts

Name:
Laurie

Re: sex question

After my 6 week check up. I went back again at 8 weeks because there was still pain. I had torn my cervix really badly, and ithere was alot of scar tissue. No pain now whatsoever!

Posted 9/12/05 1:32 PM
 

Jenn27
LIF Infant

Member since 5/05

107 total posts

Name:
jenn

Re: sex question

we waited 8 weeks. i was given the ok at 6 but was scared! it was fine. it was a little uncomfortable but not that bad.

Posted 9/12/05 10:39 PM
 
 

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